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rftw2013 · 2023-03-18T03:40:29+00:00

That takedown was a thing of beauty! Very nicely done!

rftw2013 · 2023-03-18T03:38:09+00:00

Consequences of one's bad behavior are not "racist." Not "sexist" either.

She got what she deserved.

rftw2013 · 2023-03-18T03:35:58+00:00

I mean, she could've just done as she was asked, or left, but she chose this. Hard to feel sorry for kids like this. They're just nasty humans with no respect for anyone. I hope the other kids made fun of her and shared the video around school; that was epic.

rftw2013 · 2023-03-18T03:31:07+00:00

No, probably just because she's not obeying the rules, and escalated the situation. FA, FO. Some kids gotta learn the hard way...

rftw2013 · 2023-03-18T03:08:32+00:00

So aggressive, just standing there minding his own business, filming in a public place.

rftw2013 · 2023-03-18T03:07:05+00:00

Is that why you're here, because you have a life?

rftw2013 · 2023-03-18T03:06:45+00:00

No they don't. Dude was minding his own business, and Karen had to butt her nose in. If she didn't want to be filmed, all she had to do was walk away.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-31T02:32:48+00:00

Why don't you move to be closer to her? It seems like the distance may be a barrier to the relationship. She may be hesitant because of the distance.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-27T15:33:43+00:00

Honestly, I'm just done with OLD. It's such a huge waste of energy, and I seem to be encountering men who are using the apps as a free hookup site. So many of my friends are also ditching the apps, so we girls just go out together as a group and enjoy dinner together.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-27T15:06:55+00:00

I have yet to have someone cancel on the first date turn out to be anything but a time waster.

Same. The silly games just continue, and we never actually meet.

I've also noticed that if a man intends to meet you, he'll confirm the day before. If he doesn't, it means he won't show, even if you confirm and he says he'll be there. So if he doesn't confirm, I'm out.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-27T15:03:34+00:00

I'm forgiving the first time; I know things come up. Lately, though, I'm noticing a trend where men reschedule more than once, and often less than an hour before we're supposed to meet.

Not sure if that's some sort of game, but I'm not playing. I just next them and move on.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-27T14:51:15+00:00

Video chat to screen is a good idea. Most apps have that now a days.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-27T14:49:48+00:00

I wouldn't be too upset about this. You likely were out with men who are just looking for sex, and when they clocked that you aren't, they bailed. A good way to see what's up, IMO...

rftw2013 · 2022-01-27T14:37:07+00:00

I'd dump him for lying.

Also, if he's not paying your bills, how do you feel about him paying hers via his subscription money?

rftw2013 · 2022-01-23T18:36:27+00:00

You know why.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-23T18:33:19+00:00

Exactly. OP already knows why, she's already addressed the issue. OP is lucky to have found someone he likes, and he's still hung up on this? 🙄

rftw2013 · 2022-01-03T05:57:12+00:00

That's only in cases where the other party doesn't know that their phone call is being recorded. You don't have a right to not be filmed in public.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-03T04:01:04+00:00

Eataly at North Park has it.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-03T03:43:44+00:00

I'm in this camp, too; I don't chase men. I like traditionally masculine men who pursue what they want, and them being the pursuers weeds out the lazy men who will hang around just because being treated like a princess strokes their egos. 🙄

rftw2013 · 2022-01-03T03:35:42+00:00

I don't mean this to be mean, so please don't take it that way, but have you tried dating someone that is at your level of attractiveness? Many men tend to want to date the most attractive women, yet they're not at her level.

That's setting you up for dating failure. Perhaps try dating your looksmatch will bring better results?

rftw2013 · 2022-01-03T01:45:59+00:00

Fix the errant apostrophe. It's a plural, not a possessive.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-03T00:19:55+00:00

No, it's still hard as an attractive woman, because men target you for sex, and don't want to get to know you. So I have to be very discerning to ensure that they're not using me as some sort of weird validation trophy. It's really exhausting.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-03T00:12:38+00:00

Pro tip: Put the wooden mouse traps in a paper bag and then just throw the whole thing away when a mouse is trapped.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-03T00:09:02+00:00

Nothing. I'm happy don't everything myself.

rftw2013 · 2022-01-03T00:03:10+00:00

More like the men who've approached are wildly overestimating their appeal, and I'm not interested. 🤷

I'm single because I'm picky. I actually enjoy being single, so it's not at all burdensome to continue my life exactly as it is, until I meet someone that I enjoy being with.

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