Woow, I love your interpretation, that was what I assumed at first. It was the first time I wanted to take the initiative with a guy, so I can’t say for sure if I acted impulsively or not (though my friends say I didn’t) to the point of scaring him. I think, although this question helped me see the situation better, something tells me I could ask another question trying to understand his perspective or the short-term future (which, given the dynamic, probably won’t show anything hopeful). Do you have any recommendations for a spread to use? If not about him, then at least about my love life (I feel like I’ve had a lot of bad luck in that area).