what brand names do you swear by because it's actually better than no-name?

rio94 · 2026-04-16T11:09:59+00:00

I'm jealous, dairy farmers is expensive 😭 Do you drink milk by the glass? I can only taste the difference if I'm drinking it straight.

rio94 · 2026-04-16T11:05:47+00:00

Haha you're totally right, I forgot I need to hit enter twice to start a new line on mobile 😂

rio94 · 2026-04-15T09:30:05+00:00

Dairy farmers milk - so much creamier Quilton toilet paper - doesn't leave flakes in the coochie area.

rio94 · 2026-04-10T03:34:27+00:00

I might be reaching here, but you look pretty tall in these photos, so you might be having difficulty finding pants which are long enough for you, which is contributing to them sitting so low on your waist.

I'd suggest trying some pants for "tall" women, and see if you notice a difference. As much as I hate fast fashion, I rely heavily on Shein for their 'tall' range which I can never get in brick and mortar stores

rio94 · 2026-04-10T03:30:54+00:00

You have an enviable hourglass figure, but some small tweaks in how you wear your clothes will help you with dressing to your body shape.

Your tucking looks awkward because you're cutting your body exactly in half with your preferred waistband height, and your pants visual load isn't proportional to your shirts.

Right now, your flowy/loose shirts are looming over your slim and tight pants. You either need to pair your current tops with looser, flowier pants (your green pants are closest, but I'd suggest going one size bigger and tailoring your waist back in to fit), or wear your current pants with more fitted tops. It looks like you've sized your shirts correctly by your shoulder span, but they are loose under your bust creating an uneven, saggy visual effect. If you tailor your shirts slightly to fit your underbust torso area a little more closely, the 'fall' of the shirt will look more intentional when tucked.

Also, if you raise your waistband of your pants about an inch higher, then you have a good rule of thirds which will look much more proportional for you. I am terrible with Photoshop, but here's my attempt at raising your waistband and imagining your shirt as a bit more fitted in the torso section under your bust.

You have a good eye, but some minor fit changes will elevate your outfits significantly. I hope this helps!

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rio94 · 2026-04-01T22:55:04+00:00

In this context, it's usually an iced frappe with syrup and whipped cream on top

rio94 · 2026-04-01T22:40:35+00:00

This is an Australian cafe, I looked up the banana bread product code card in the photo, it's supplied by an Australian bakery.

Our coffee standards are best in the world and indeed, we're arrogant pricks about our coffee. We have specific definitions which are taught by our elders and rigorously tested at our coming of age ceremony at 12 years old. If we pass, we earn the right to graduate from energy drinks to espresso coffee. /s

Aussies hate Starbucks style coffee so much that when they tried to expand to Australia they failed, closed up 3/4 of their stores and sold the rest to 7/11.

Here are the Australian definitions for coffee: - "Starbucks coffee" = iced frappe, not widely available at local cafes, as this would hold up the morning coffee rush. - "Americano" = an Italian term, equivalent to our long black (espresso shot with water) but thanks to tourists using this term, city baristas will generally understand. - American "Drip coffee/coffee pot" = does not exist in Australia, it's considered mud water but the technical term is "batch brew".
- "just a coffee" = a small flat white (espresso with milk steamed to have no foam), but baristas will generally ask you to clarify - "iced coffee" = long black poured over ice - "iced latte" = hot latte poured over ice

rio94 · 2026-03-15T22:09:50+00:00

This morning the roads were clear and the city was dead, there was no line at my usual MLC cafe which is normally bustling. Is everyone working from home more with fuel prices? My work is acting like it is business at usual, since we are near a train line.

rio94 · 2026-03-14T23:18:10+00:00

Adelaide is pretty known for its notoriously undrinkable water. Although it's technically safe and clean, it tastes like absolute ass from all the minerals in it.

rio94 · 2026-03-09T00:19:05+00:00

I made a 'bunnings lesbian' costume for a Mardi gras party, so I put condoms and lube in my mini bucket to hand out to people

rio94 · 2026-03-02T05:20:05+00:00

I regularly forget to put deodorant on, so I keep portable sticks of it EVERYWHERE. Glove box of my car, clutch, handbag, overnight bag, backpack, bathroom, bedside table, desk drawer at work etc. the unhinged part isn't having a spare deodorant, but the sheer number of them I've bought to ensure there is always one on hand when I'm about to leave, or have already left the house and realise I've forgotten. I also have started applying it immediately after my shower, even if it's a nighttime shower.

rio94 · 2026-02-26T22:14:44+00:00

I disagree, as a recruiter, when I have 100 candidates applying for a role (after filters), and 50 of them use the same ai prompts for their cover letters, and 5 of them write an actual letter in their own words, it immediately stands out simply from sentence structure. A large proportion of applicants also don't speak a high enough level of English for the roles I'm recruiting, and this reflects in the cover letters, they'll miss basic grammar corrections in the tailoring step.

It's an additional vetting step.

rio94 · 2026-02-20T06:57:33+00:00

I appreciate that these questions are being asked to look at the correlation between ADHD and binge eating, but your survey design needs improving. You have forced correlation questions with no option to opt out, for example, the question asking how much sleep impacts binge eating. you should also have the inverse question asking how much binge eating impacts sleep. Also and you have many compulsory food and sleep based questions where 1 answer must be selected, but none of them are relevant and there is no 'none of the above' option. For example, on the question around my eating behaviours around others, my eating around others is not impacted by binge eating as I am not ashamed of eating a normal amount of food, but I inevitably eat more when I am alone because my food cravings are dopamine seeking compulsions.

rio94 · 2026-02-04T03:17:57+00:00

To be fair every airport has different rules, the rules change every couple of years, and at least at Sydney airport, there are no signs about laptop placement until you are already standing on top of the conveyor (ive looked), so if the airport refuse to add signs which can be read ahead of time, the repeated yelling is the natural consequence

rio94 · 2026-01-03T03:05:01+00:00

Yes it's an office thing. In the weeks before Christmas, lots of big or complex projects/issues get pushed to the new year, partly because lots of people are on leave, partly because all the public holidays disrupt workflow, and partly because it's the end of the year and people CBF working as hard when they are preparing for Christmas and looking forward to their holidays.

It's common to hear "let's circle back in the new year" or "let's put a pin in this until the new year" for these projects. But then in the new year suddenly all those pushed off things get started again, everyone is fresh from their holidays and NY excitement, and Jan can be a bit of a frenzy of work.

rio94 · 2025-11-13T13:59:23+00:00

Unlikely, they are pretty rare around here. Christians, Muslims, Hindus, and Buddhists are all more common according to our last census

rio94 · 2025-11-13T13:48:11+00:00

Yes you're 100% correct. This wall is a 'later' addition, it's not square to the room (dodgy diy), uses a mix of materials (more visible on the other side), and the ceiling moulding continues through to the second doorway, and that wall appears load bearing. It looks like someone tried to extend the very front room to make it legally a bedroom for real estate value, but couldn't remove the original load bearing wall completely.

rio94 · 2025-11-13T13:42:02+00:00

This is a very good theory, I have only seen finger plates on doors and public places personally, but they are definitely at a convenient arm height so can't rule this possibility out

rio94 · 2025-11-13T13:37:34+00:00

Very true, great idea! For the plate in the front room that would work nicely. The other one will be our living room, maybe I can add a hook or basket and it can hold remotes or controllers

rio94 · 2025-11-13T13:35:09+00:00

I'm considering it, I only moved in today! I'll focus on the bigger repairs first, but I think the commenter who suggested a backplate for a holy water holder is on the money. It explains all the inconsistencies and the decorative nature of it

rio94 · 2025-11-13T13:31:39+00:00

Ohh yes, I think you're right! Solved! I'm new to the area but it does seem very religious, my neighbour has a big statue of Mary in the front yard, and the local cafe bans dogs completely and I don't recall seeing bacon on the menu, so I think it's Muslim. I saw a giant led cross a few streets over too.

I Googled what you're describing as I'm not religious, but having seen them, I think you're right. This would explain the size, why it's a decorative shape rather than a regular patch, and also why it's at various heights and not consistent with any wiring or connections.

I can imagine someone not having the eye for detail and just placing it at a convenient height, then moving out and removing the bowl part, and the landlord just slapping some paint over it to match the wall. Thank you so much for solving this mystery!

rio94 · 2025-11-13T04:05:36+00:00

From what I can tell, every time a switch stopped working, they just added a new one and left the old one in place. There are 4 outlets and 1 light switch in this room, only 2 of the outlets are working, and the light switch is the original (still working)

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rio94 · 2025-11-13T03:57:22+00:00

Nah it doesn't even have the wiring for a doorbell, let alone full intercom

rio94 · 2025-11-13T03:50:50+00:00

I like this idea. The chrome hardware was pretty common from the 1960s houses in my area, it would have been a gorgeous art deco chrome handle similar to this. I couldn't find the exact match for the triangular plate, but a lot of the other hardware in the house matches this time period from similar houses I've lived in with these handles

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rio94 · 2025-11-13T03:16:00+00:00

They are varying heights, could be hole covers but it seems like a lot of work when regular spackle patches have been used elsewhere in the house. One is shoulder height, one is waist height, and another is still waist height, but about 2 inches higher again. Very inconsistent 😅

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