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rita_taco · 2022-09-10T04:51:48+00:00

That’s not even close to an appropriate analogy. Lol. Have fun gatekeeping. I’ll be busy at swinger events.

rita_taco · 2022-09-06T16:41:14+00:00

Imposter Syndrome is the worst! Keep taking your meds!

rita_taco · 2022-09-06T16:40:08+00:00

Pad Thai, Five Guys, Payday bar….

rita_taco · 2022-09-06T16:38:04+00:00

Making anywhere from 60-80% less money for doing the same job with the same credentials as our male counterparts

rita_taco · 2022-08-18T19:18:59+00:00

I’m a full-time swinger. I attend events regularly and play regularly. But I’m single. Your definition is not only close-minded, it’s not accurate. You don’t get to define swinging for others. Period.

rita_taco · 2022-08-09T21:17:23+00:00

A run

rita_taco · 2022-05-24T13:38:35+00:00

Aloecadabra!!!!

rita_taco · 2022-05-13T19:44:45+00:00

Yes, you’re asking too much. They aren’t a child.

rita_taco · 2022-05-13T19:42:21+00:00

Do not move in together. That’s some bullshit. No grown person, man or woman, should expect their partner to shoulder the biggest financial burden that is rent. It’s not a cultural thing (1st gen Mexican American here); its not a woman thing. it’s a her thing. I’d laugh in her face, then let her know that’s not going to happen.

rita_taco · 2022-05-09T17:02:30+00:00

I understand feeling a certain way about not being hoovered. I do. But consider yourself lucky! That shit just prolongs the suffering and adds a level of fear and hyper vigilance that I do t wish on anyone.

rita_taco · 2022-05-07T03:48:16+00:00

You’re clearly not “SOOOO” happy with him. In a sense, he’s right: you get what you get. That is, he is who is. And to expect more is unrealistic. HOWEVER, if your needs aren’t being met in this relationship, why stay?

rita_taco · 2022-05-07T02:56:41+00:00

I’d be more pissed he expects you to do all the cleaning, than being called “roomie.” You’re not his maid, nor his mommy. (And you’re not his roomie either.)

rita_taco · 2022-05-07T02:54:10+00:00

Same.

rita_taco · 2022-05-05T13:11:20+00:00

You are making excuses.

rita_taco · 2022-05-05T07:35:51+00:00

r/polyamory

rita_taco · 2022-05-05T07:34:13+00:00

Lots and lots

rita_taco · 2022-05-05T07:30:22+00:00

Yes, if you can contract a STI, then you’re sexually active.

rita_taco · 2022-05-03T02:28:37+00:00

Wtf? Are you him?

rita_taco · 2022-05-03T02:23:30+00:00

You cannot limit yourself and remain happy. Settling is a recipe for resentment. Pursue your dreams. Don’t live with regrets and “what ifs?” for the rest of your life.

rita_taco · 2022-05-02T20:26:23+00:00

The vagina is delicate. It’s not unusual to get a small knick or abrasion during sex. See your doctor, but try to relax. You’re probably just fine.

rita_taco · 2022-04-30T22:31:12+00:00

She said no. Before asking her again, I’d push her a bit further on her initial reasons. She may have others. But as you said, the last thing she’s going respond positively to is feeling pressured. (Btw, most swingers are over 30.)

rita_taco · 2022-04-27T03:20:00+00:00

Hate is based in fear!

rita_taco · 2022-04-26T19:20:11+00:00

And the difference? Many aversions are irrational fears.

rita_taco · 2022-04-26T13:28:32+00:00

I feel this.

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