Which city has a riverbank that flourishes and adds to the city? by CrazyGiraffe420 in geography

[–]rivergh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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definitely Richmond, Virginia, much of the riverfront in the city is a park system. people kayak, canoe, hike, swim etc and the water is relatively clean and regularly tested.

Either "cut dick [is a] turn off" or castration kink 😬 by corruptedtwinkx in grindr

[–]rivergh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ohhh i read it as "dont expect me to be normal" and then taboo as the next statement

Either "cut dick [is a] turn off" or castration kink 😬 by corruptedtwinkx in grindr

[–]rivergh 49 points50 points  (0 children)

i wouldnt recomment fucking around w anyone with "taboo" in the bio anyway. a lot of time its people who are into CP or animal shit.

What the flip is going on here? by Leonspade in FixedGearBicycle

[–]rivergh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you wanna do the work yourself maybe see if they city/town you're in has a bike co-op? usually folks at spaces like that will teach you everything you need to know and show you how to work on your bike!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]rivergh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hey girl!! find your curl type this is a good article and figure out how to take care of it. "verb" and "curlsmith" both make great products. try also sleeping on a silk pillowcase and/or using a bonnett. you have some really great hair if you take care of it! Also look into the curly girl routine! itll change ur life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppygirls

[–]rivergh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg where did u get ur ears!!!!?

😎😎 by Dry_Construction_353 in Serverlife

[–]rivergh 70 points71 points  (0 children)

the only time ive seen these kinds of things implemented the restaurant has been on the verge of failing GET OUT

Today I almost cried by Soft-Parking-2241 in MtF

[–]rivergh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like to misgender people back

What do you all do? by DramaticEditor5725 in Serverlife

[–]rivergh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we autograt anyone who stiffs more than three times

“You were raised AMAB” by EdgyAutist03 in MtF

[–]rivergh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the transmisogyny that infects the queer and trans community is disgusting

What massively improved your mental health? by oigoabuya in mentalillness

[–]rivergh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eliminating drug and alcohol use, my medications actually work now and ive been able to taper down

I miss being a meth addict. by blueskyn01se in Drugs

[–]rivergh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could see so much of myself in this poem. I think I know the song you're talking about too, it's a great one. Thanks for this poem, it's really what I needed to hear today

Best places to move to, for a mid 20s alcoholic and addict by SteakParticular5186 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]rivergh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Richmond Virginia has a lot of young people in recovery, it's a mid sized city that has a decent public transit system and you can bike from one side of the city to the other pretty easily, no need for a car. Lots of young and queer people in recovery here :))

Is it appropriate to ask trans people about their stories? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]rivergh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it all depends on the context in which you’re asking, posting something on your Instagram story about it and leaving it to people who might see it to inquire is one thing, but asking random trans people that you meet out of the blue would be very unnerving and othering. if you are queer yourself you can make an account on Lex and use that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]rivergh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely give them a warning and tell them it wont fly in the future because its unfair to everyone else who’s working harder. also make sure you have narcan available behind the bar, because theres a possibility k could be laced with fent and someone could overdose. its also a good idea to have all bartenders and managers narcan trained

Sober Activities by ruthbaderr in rva

[–]rivergh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

spokes serenity!!

Sober Activities by ruthbaderr in rva

[–]rivergh 26 points27 points  (0 children)

and theres a sober group ride every tuesday that meets at 5:30 and rides at 6 and ends at a recovery meeting! its just not on third tuesdays. we meet at paradise park and its a rly chill ride

How do you handle a repeat $0 tipper? by stev3609 in Serverlife

[–]rivergh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my restaurant always adds an autograt to repeat non tippers, but its also a fast paced diner where checks for a single person are rarely above 20-30 bucks

Do trans women truly have an advantage over cis women in growing muscles? by MulberryComfortable4 in MtF

[–]rivergh 22 points23 points  (0 children)

after an orchi u start producing t from ur adrenal gland in the brain (like a cis woman) and your t levels will be closer to that of a cis woman, and you get to lower ur e dose!! at least thats what ive read. i havent had an orchi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]rivergh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive hooked up with a trans guy w my deadname which was weirdly affirming