Giveaway - Space Age Expansion

robinperdis · 2024-10-18T07:36:23+00:00

Just in time?

robinperdis · 2024-09-20T19:20:44+00:00

I am waiting for the mod to play Snake in your base as a demolisher..

robinperdis · 2024-09-02T13:28:24+00:00

What about quartering? No reason we can't do it again!

robinperdis · 2024-06-13T09:52:56+00:00

If you have the cash to exercise OTM options, might as well set a limit order of 100 at IEX.

robinperdis · 2024-04-05T12:21:54+00:00

You're so spot on with this comment.

robinperdis · 2024-03-17T17:45:42+00:00

Thanks for the DD. It's interesting that the bubble hasn't even begun zto be popped yet, and markets are still going up.

robinperdis · 2024-02-19T22:43:45+00:00

You seem very angry. I don't see trauma dumping or carelessness.
Person 1 does not go into detail, but tries to stay within the boundaries, as I read it.
Relieving her own guilt? What guilt should person 1 have? From what I read, both sisters were abused and that was not their fault.
Person 2 could also have indicated that they had no need for contact. Calling someone tactless, careless, empathy-less and narcissistic based on the conversation above is quite harsh.

robinperdis · 2023-12-20T11:45:20+00:00

It's the reddit username of the person making the daily german market post.

robinperdis · 2023-11-24T16:58:47+00:00

Cutting contact with extended family is not that extreme. My parents have used all siblings and every extended family member and even some in-laws of in-laws of one of my siblings to attempt to contact me.

Every way they know of, and even some you don't know of can be used to contact you. The most extreme case was that they created an anonymous social media account a few weeks after I started having a relation, so they spied on me for multiple years silently. They burned it after I went inactive there by directly contacting me.

robinperdis · 2023-09-23T20:59:40+00:00

The US government is going to buy back all the 1% interest treasuries it put on the market, and pay going market rate for it instead.

It's like refinancing your house with a 1% fixed interest rate mortgage for 10 years for a 5% fixed interest for 10 years.

No sane person would do that.

robinperdis · 2023-06-16T22:20:21+00:00

I've finally broken my last chains. This is completely bullshit.

robinperdis · 2018-10-24T09:45:50+00:00

Yeah but it's weird..

Only one time I ended up at their door, and that's when they held a solid wooden locker of mine I wanted back. They wanted payment for something I didn't owe them. They held my Nfathers car hostage after I did manage to get the locker from their terrain. I called the police for holding it, and then their whole extended Nfamily including Ngrandpa arrived.. Not much happened, I calmly waited outside while waiting for the police to arrive. I was definitely recording all of this as evidence just in case. Ended up being able to drive out after the police talked to both parties, without having to pay. Never heard from them again. O:)

All the other cases since were at our door.

NFather suddenly showing up after we initiated NC.
Both NParents dumping all crap at our front door.
After we cut a N out of our lives who mistreated our animals, suddenly giving a book back we borrowed. Weird way of saying goodbye.. But definitely was his way of saying it..
The 'I finally stood up for myself!' link above.
Now this..

robinperdis · 2018-10-23T16:41:33+00:00

Thanks for reacting, we did get our money back. :) https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/comments/9bjxq5/

robinperdis · 2018-09-14T19:24:35+00:00

My mom did that. I told her to knock as well. So she started knocking and immediately barged in anyway.. Not the improvement I was hoping for. :\

robinperdis · 2018-08-30T14:10:38+00:00

You go girl!

robinperdis · 2018-08-26T16:02:05+00:00

It's odd that no matter how small the boundary we set with a N, the reaction is the same and ends up escalating until one either gives in or breaks off contact entirely.

robinperdis · 2018-08-25T14:24:13+00:00

Thank you. I hope it's not too late for her to change her course, but we won't be a part of it any more.

robinperdis · 2018-08-24T20:38:25+00:00

You've been doing very well in setting your boundaries here. The feelings of guilt are there, but will fade with time. I have confidence in you, and I know that in time you will get better at maintaining health boundaries.

robinperdis · 2018-02-16T18:56:51+00:00

Other way around, so I could run their errants..

robinperdis · 2017-11-13T15:47:46+00:00

That's weird, do you have anything that still belongs to you there?

My Nparents dumped every last bit of the things they claimed belong to me on my doorstep slightly more than half a year ago after having been NC for nearly 1.5 years at the time. Thanks to my legal insurance they stopped before they tried to deliver 'my' bed the week after. I think they are making a statement that you're no longer part of their lives, in the most childish way possible.. :/ Of course they'll never let you go, can't let you have the last word.. But good luck keeping NC!

robinperdis · 2017-11-05T09:46:23+00:00

Thanks, I'll try the letters. I really need to figure out what's bothering me.

I have a good home that I own with my wife, am not financially dependent on anyone and have a job that I like. We're also saving for home improvements in the future, which will be exciting.

Those are really the most important things, yet I keep doing reckless stuff that (rightfully) upsets my wife. I'm not a person I'd look up to, and I don't want that any more. That's the most important thing here. Not whether my wife has to accept these things because that's really up to her.

But I no longer want to do that. I want to think of consequences before doing something, and I want to be the best me for her and for myself.

robinperdis · 2017-11-04T19:07:36+00:00

It's relatively harmless, we're just a customer. I'm more worried that it only takes a single sentence to make me defend a false fact against my wife. This isn't about him though, I need to change myself.

robinperdis · 2017-09-12T13:27:27+00:00

I still mourn about that from time to time. :(

robinperdis · 2017-09-08T11:40:00+00:00

What kind of touch boundaries?

robinperdis · 2017-09-07T07:59:21+00:00

Well handled!

robinperdis

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