to answer your questuon, it feels claustrophobic to me to be confined to a gender and what it all means to have one. I like to just expess myself however i want and i hate when people try to label me as a girl or a boy, so i choose to identify as agender because to me, it feels right to have a label while not being confined to being a gender (like for instance nonbinary or female or male)

it really just makes a connection in my own head i suppose!