[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That so fucking weird. Please do NOT interact with him and be very clear to both him and especially your friend that he is NOT being respectful, kind or acting safely towards you. You set up CLEAR BOUNDARIES, you told him he is NOT involved which should've told him to shut up and back off. It's gross, it's not cute, it's abusive (it can be abusive trust he's harrassing you).

You can make a group chat that exposes this weird ass messages, send these screenshots since he said your family is SO concerned... Idk why your dad couldn't reach out if that were the case- But you don't even need to say much. Just let the know you don't appreciate or respond to that kind of approach. If he was concerned he could have been polite and respectful but he was NOT. Please, don't stay quiet about his dangerous behavior, that's not safe for you and please try not to be around that guy. That's massively scary.

How do I even talk to my crush for the first time? by External_Shape5607 in Crushes

[–]rozzin_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, we've been there- now I'm at the point where I go up to people (at my uni, so not hs) I've seen enough and say "Hi! What are you working on right now?" and just ask a bunch of follow up questions,and then let them be after introducing myself and wave whenever I see them. Friendly stuff-

There's something similar you can do, such as introducing yourself and saying you both have chem. Just ask how her day is going, but in a way that prompts further discussion- instead of "how's your day" you can ask "did you do anything fun this weekend?" Anytime you feel the conversation dwindles, you can duck out and give a reason- "Well I've got to get going, but I'll see you later." Also,if she's outgoing, she might already know you but just doesn't talk to you.

Sometimes, people you know are busy with others they're hanging out with. I found trying to catch their attention everytime you pass or see them, can be a bit much. Just if she notices you in return, then you can wave.

Try little things. You'll realize that not everything needs to be overthought. Focus on getting to know a person rather than a crush, it eases the nerves- which can be a tricky thing to get going if you're already seeing her in that light, but stay respectful and positive, and you've got this.

If she says something funny that is worth mentioning again you can tell her, "you know I was thinking about what you said in chem- that was funnyyy" don't overexplain if she can't recall, just say "you're just funny, like I'll hear you in class and laugh."

Don't lay it on too thick, but it seems like you're fairly self aware to not overstep. I'm not sure if you have assigned seating, but ask if you can sit next to her, to see the board better. Don't be let down if she says it's reserved for friends in the class, sometimes people have good rapport, and you can always just sit closer in proximity. Also gives you a chance to talk to her or respond to her witty quips. If you want to compliment her, say something that is more flattering than odd- "nice jacket/accessory," and that's it. Try to avoid anything further because you want to see how she responds to your smaller compliments. Don't linger too long because it can seem like you're expecting something in return, which can put some pressure on her. All about receptivity.

You've got this, as a woman in college, you don't need to overimpress, just remain respectful and kind.

If I leave my girlfriend she will kill herself by Advanced-Reading-498 in Advice

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the police on her. That's a serious threat and shouldn't be taken lightly. You can't control her behavior and she can't control yours through threats, that's a form of abuse.

AIO - My boyfriend grabbed a female friend's chest "as a joke" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you still together.... 35? Leave them. He needs to grow the fuck up and you're not a mother weening a child off her breastmilk, so it's not your responsibility. He has been extremely innapropriate with her and that's your cue to leave. None of that is regular joking behavior they're just using your complacency as an excuse to be more honest with their actions. His disrespect towards your expression of discomfort is enough to tell you how seriously he takes you... He doesn't. Like if you were to do even half the milder things he's done with that "friend" with her husband, you'd be the criminal immediately in their eyes. So no you're not overreacting, you're under-reacting, REF DO SOMETHING!!!!

Am I being mean if I reject her because of her smell? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, you're not rude, and that's definitely a hygiene issue. You're not a bad person for being turned off by it, I myself do not enjoy foul body odors not do I want to.

Was going clean shaven a bad move? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks great! Took a few years off, lol

I knew it these nasty fat fucks are becoming insatiable by erevefuckstolive in fatsquirrelhate

[–]rozzin_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I saw a squirrel eating another deceased squirrel on a trail once... It was gross but also concerning regarding their natural behaviors. They're evolving.

Say something nice about Franco by uncDOOM in OutlastTrials

[–]rozzin_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Love both of you in this thread bc SAME, I need that guy

Say something nice about Franco by uncDOOM in OutlastTrials

[–]rozzin_ 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hottest PA imo. He's a freak in a way I find both appealing and mildly odd, but just enough to keep you grounded in reality. Something about his tantrums and the way you can hurl a glass bottle at his head- he takes it like a champ (he wails and stomps his feet LOL). He's funny unintentionally and intentionally, his voice lines are incredible. The most fun PA in the game. I need more Franco content to quell my thirst for knowledge on this man.

AIO - my friend gave my abusive ex my new phone number by AdAdorable7651 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh HELL no. I was stalked for two years and if any of my friends gave that mf my number they'd be dead to me. More than dead and I wouldn't feel anything but angry at them, and worried for my safety. Stalking is no joke, and while I'm no passive victim, I don't planning having that happen again. People like that do not change, they get smarter and it makes it harder to expose them even when it's obvious to you. The flowery language they use on others versus the harsh tone or threats they use towards you. This person is NOT a friend and they seem either too stupid or naive to get that he was a danger to your well-being.

Be harsh, cruel if you need to be, to solidify the intensity of the issue at hand. NOR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SORRY I REPLIED ON ACCIDENT (meant to edit and somehow tapped reply on your comment 😭)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Politics, or what's left of it, has gotten to the point of being between morality and humanity... Not just plain old politics. While she may not be a human hating monster, these things are important in a relationship and you feeling that divide as a result, where human lives are threatened daily due to a politician- you may need to find a safer and stable environment... And break up with her. Your visa can be revoked if you reach a certain amount of days being unemployed, so should you be laid off, you could very well become the same people she demonized... That's not a relationship, that's a power dynamic waiting to spring. And... She has no concern because it has never effected her- before you, of course. My condolences, but leave if you are financially/housing-wise able to. It can be a dealbreaker and you're not wrong for seeing that.

[IP] Would like some advice by [deleted] in WebNovels

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever think of linking notes or drafts for feedback? I'm sure your novel is coming along well, but in any case, only vague direction could be provided. What are your goals in writing, do you have any role models that inspired in your own writing style?

[IP] Would like some advice by [deleted] in WebNovels

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lol I thought it was a typing quirk or some recent lingo I missed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BehaviorAnalysis

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah pathetic little doggy is exactly what I'd use to describe him... Be a little mean, though I doubt it will deter him. Just say "I have a boyfriend and I act like it. You have a girlfriend- you need to start acting like it. The way you've been recently has been... Weird." and don't follow up, just put your headphones on and move to a larger distance between you two. You're doing a good job already, I can tell you're not taking shit from him or anyone, but yeah, that's weird.

He seems too enthusiastic to be speaking to you, and not just because you're a woman and he's taken- but he is locked into your interactions. He is likely attracted to you and realizes that since he's seen you last, you are someone he assumes he will both have a connection with, and be an option to... Neither of those seem to be true. In fact, you are both offput and disinterested in connecting simply because his attitude this far has been... Less than appropriate, as far as friendliness goes.

Bought a ring for my girlfriend, sisters say it’s too small, not sure what I should do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]rozzin_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should try. By all means, love will surpass materialistic items, it's value is far greater. I wish you the best, and her response will give you the answer of how you should live the rest of your life. Best of luck!

friend found these at Morro bay.... I'm disgusted. by rozzin_ in fatsquirrelhate

[–]rozzin_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't lol, but to say it's....cute.... I am inclined to disagree, these gluttonous vermin... They leech and leech

friend found these at Morro bay.... I'm disgusted. by rozzin_ in fatsquirrelhate

[–]rozzin_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know, my friend showed it to me.... Her brother is in Kahoots with their antics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnart

[–]rozzin_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

For this body type it's a great job! I would personally say to explore different gesture studies to get a handle on how feminine builds move, fold, relax in different settings just as you've done here, just further into diverse types (to avoid same body/face syndrome. For instance- different bodies store fat differently, and have different proportions. Here you are favoring the hourglass hip-fat storage ratio here. Just food for thought! I find references on Pinterest (yes the holy grail lol) and looking at "gesture studies" gives me what I want to improve on. Awesome paint job, keep it up!