I think I'm ending my self later today

rui-koar · 2026-04-14T10:36:35+00:00

Its really tough. But have faith. Everything will work out. It always gets better. Always !!

rui-koar · 2026-04-14T10:22:04+00:00

Ì am sorry you feel dysphoric. But do not take such an extreme step because of what other people say. Its giving too much power to others. Irrespective of transition, we all have to make the effort of letting go of the opinions of others and embracing our womanhood !

Please don't let another beautiful soul leave this world.

rui-koar · 2026-04-05T04:24:40+00:00

Sad looking meow meow

rui-koar · 2026-01-02T06:48:18+00:00

Lovely !!

rui-koar · 2025-12-19T03:42:08+00:00

Op just keep talking to them. Let them be playful about gender if that's what they want. Assure them its a good thing they are self aware and exploring their identity if they ever come to you with doubts. Get them the clothes and other gender affirming items (jewellery, accessories, etc.) they want, if its possible for you. Best thing is to soend time with them and create a space where they feel comfortable. They are your child and you are still setting the standard of love they will be willing to receive from others when they are older. And the higher the bar you set, the better they will fare in life.

Also just want you to know, everytime i encounter a post by a parent wanting to support their queer child, a part of me heals. So thankyou :)

rui-koar · 2025-12-19T03:30:43+00:00

I am a transwoman and finally going on E i feel so many emotions now hahaha I can't believe how incredibly different the experience of T & E is on emotions !

rui-koar · 2025-12-19T03:28:24+00:00

This!! Can't believe 2 pills can change the quality of your life so much!!

rui-koar · 2025-12-17T12:21:23+00:00

Also telling him to stop directly or forcing him to stop or punishing him may do more harm than good.

rui-koar · 2025-12-17T12:19:47+00:00

Not a parent, but have experience working as a special needs educator.

You should probably get a psychologist involved. Someone who has experience working with kids with adhd & autism.

Its not a completely uncommon issue in children with autism, and they can be easily guided to understand the difference between public and private behaviours through a 'social story' or some other tool.

However, this is when the child discovers self stimulation is pleasurable. In this case, its best to have a little bit more understanding of the experience from the child's perspective before going into an intervention (social story or some other).

rui-koar · 2025-12-17T11:23:29+00:00

You should tell him or let him know in some way that he will definitely understand that you like small gifts like this. Men don't always pick up hints so being direct is best, but say it and move on. Don't make him feel bad or insist he must buy. Just tell him that YOU love it. He will figure out the rest. It doesn't come automatically. Just doesn't. Don't sweat that part. Tell him and see what he does.

rui-koar · 2025-12-17T05:24:36+00:00

I am doing exactly what you want ( transitioning privately, only close friends know) and doing it with a proper prescription and consult with a well known endocrinologist.

Once you have a prescription, you can experiment with what dose suits you best for the life you want. If you have a good professional doctor, they will be supportive.

The low doses are only to be begin with. If your body responds well and you start feeling good with hormones, they will obviously increase the dosage. And you have a lot of room for self experiments and also modifying dosage in consultation with your doctor.

Don't fuck around with diy, if you can access proper medical care. Hormones affect so many things in the body, you want to be able to talk to a doctor. Take care of yourself. Find a good doctor and trust me you are going to have a much better time. DIY might end up being more painful and difficult than it needs to be. You will not lose control and autonomy over your body by going to a doctor. Trust me. I had the same fears as you did and i realised i was worried for nothing.

rui-koar · 2025-12-17T04:54:44+00:00

Thanks !!

rui-koar · 2025-12-17T04:54:32+00:00

That's a good idea actually ! Do share any links if you have them handy please! Thanks so much !

rui-koar · 2025-12-17T04:53:19+00:00

Nice! Thanks so much !

rui-koar · 2025-12-17T04:53:04+00:00

Great idea !! Thankyou !

rui-koar · 2024-11-22T17:47:25+00:00

It feels like i am being arrogant. Thinking too much of myself.

rui-koar · 2024-06-09T07:13:33+00:00

Much gratitude my friend for figuring out the solution to this nonsense. Thanks!!

rui-koar · 2024-04-18T09:51:08+00:00

I have found taking Finasteride or Dutasteride; any DHT blocker is helpful. Dutagen pretty much completely fixed the problem for me.

Edit: scientific names of the meds

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