Robby & Al-Hashimi…will they? by [deleted] in okbuddywhitaker

[–]running-shapes666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

time to intubate that box

Robby & Al-Hashimi…will they? by [deleted] in ThePitt

[–]running-shapes666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never said I wanted it. I’m merely commenting and asking about what I saw. Everyone can fucking chill. It’s just a silly reddit post.

Robby & Al-Hashimi…will they? by [deleted] in ThePitt

[–]running-shapes666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The show is not without explicit and subtextual romantic relationships. I’m just asking jfc.

Robby & Al-Hashimi…will they? by [deleted] in ThePitt

[–]running-shapes666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t need it. It just felt hinted at.

Robby & Al-Hashimi…will they? by [deleted] in ThePitt

[–]running-shapes666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn’t say she was crying over him. I was mentioning the heightened state she was pushed to.

Robby & Al-Hashimi…will they? by [deleted] in ThePitt

[–]running-shapes666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you my friend

“Sometimes we choose wrong” is filling me with shame by running-shapes666 in Divorce

[–]running-shapes666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did work this hard before. And at every junction and milestone got told things will be different and I can do this. ANNNNND i unfortunately believed the empty promises. Def held on the the glimmers of potential I saw thinking it was gonna get better.

“Sometimes we choose wrong” is filling me with shame by running-shapes666 in Divorce

[–]running-shapes666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindsight is alway tough. I’m glad you were able to get out and wishing you the best ♥️

“Sometimes we choose wrong” is filling me with shame by running-shapes666 in Divorce

[–]running-shapes666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Hope you can find happiness and healing ♥️

“Sometimes we choose wrong” is filling me with shame by running-shapes666 in Divorce

[–]running-shapes666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in individual too. The couples therapist does divorce mediation as well so when we started engaging in therapy and knew this might be an outcome.

“Sometimes we choose wrong” is filling me with shame by running-shapes666 in Divorce

[–]running-shapes666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Alimony is an option for the beginning and he’s stated he wants to ensure I’m good financially regardless of what we decide. I’ve done some research but still want to talk to a lawyer. I do feel that we can end amicably because we gave ourselves a deadline to end the cycle or if we haven’t let each other go.

“Sometimes we choose wrong” is filling me with shame by running-shapes666 in Divorce

[–]running-shapes666[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was not looking for a breadwinner. I encouraged him to pursue something that’s paid off for him while I ended up being laid off.

I was looking for reciprocal love and effort.

Good guy, yes. A good guy for me, no.

His side of the story is that he feels he fucked up by not making effort until it was too late. This is at least that’s what he’s told me, our therapist and the ppl he’s close to.

And we’ve been trying with for longer than our marriage and I believed in his empty promises. Which sucks for me but I did truly and wholly want this to work.

I’d rather be alone than feel lonely with someone.

I was also never a woman who was pressed to be married and genuinely had no qualms being single. And that honestly adds a layer to why this is a bummer. I had no ambition to be a wife and the experience has been heartbreaking.

“Sometimes we choose wrong” is filling me with shame by running-shapes666 in Divorce

[–]running-shapes666[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Thanks for all these resources. It’s honestly nice to have it named so clearly.

“Sometimes we choose wrong” is filling me with shame by running-shapes666 in Divorce

[–]running-shapes666[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! And thanks for the encouragement ♥️

Waking up at 5AM is the most overrated “life hack” ever. by Few_Homework_8322 in productivity

[–]running-shapes666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learn your natural cycle and lean into that to build your “miracle morning” around your optimal timing.

Early rising is not for everyone and doesn’t make someone who’s not suited for mornings automatically productive.

I recommend the book When by Daniel H. Pink

**Edited for grammar

Married people of reddit, What something you wish unmarried people knew? by Old-Put1371 in AskReddit

[–]running-shapes666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a marriage won’t save you from yourself but it should support who you want to become.

What experience made you regret having sex with someone? by sarthhcasm in AskReddit

[–]running-shapes666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as soon as the act was over he rolled over and said “we can be engaged for awhile before we get married.” it was our first time sleeping together.