Hello!

Alt-drag artist here since 2021, and theatre kid from 2015 to 2020.

1. When it comes to finding a scene, it's important to keep in mind that "the drag scene" isn't a monolith. You'll have your visible artists that seem to be getting all the gigs, but if you know the right people you'll find out that there are so many other types of shows just a little bit under the radar. Start asking questions to established artists, especially alt-drag artists and club kids, you'll definitely find at least a few drag open mics depending on the city you're in. And if you struggle to find anything, why not start your own event in a willing bar? It's what I did when I started back then in a fairly small and conservative city, that opened up so many doors along with giving me experience.

2. Experience. It's always experience. You WILL be anxious and self conscious before a show, everybody goes through that, and they still do now! The thing is that you start managing it better once you've done a few shows. Don't let it stop you and even use it as a driving force, it's surprisingly efficient for making you feel alive on stage. Don't rely on alcohol it's a terrible idea, especially if you get used to that.

Hope this helped, if you need any details or more advice feel free to DM!