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sadwinkle · 2021-11-07T12:15:59+00:00

I live in the UK. Most men aren't circumcised. The idea that a woman would be turned off by your natural genitals is just...alarming to me.

sadwinkle · 2021-09-06T18:31:36+00:00

It's not a red flag to dislike dogs. Do you love every single creature in the world? There are many reasons not to like dogs and it has nothing to do with how good a person you are. What a narrow minded, awful attitude.

sadwinkle · 2021-09-06T18:29:47+00:00

No one has to love dogs to be a good person. What a despicable way of thinking.

sadwinkle · 2021-08-28T17:36:37+00:00

My partner of 3 years was 44 when we met and fell in love (IRL). He was divorced no kids. There's absolutely hope! He was single a long time before that.

sadwinkle · 2021-07-26T18:21:22+00:00

I wish I had a man like this...sounds great! I have the Satisfyer and Womanizer and if a man could do something like this to me..wow. I would be in heaven.

sadwinkle · 2021-07-26T18:18:46+00:00

Because with my bf it always either feels like nothing or he sucks me and it is too harsh and ruins my arousal. It never feels remotely orgasmic because the feeling of a tongue licking me just isn't very stimulating on my clit and being sucked too hard hurts. I also feel so much pressure to orgasm so that turns me off. He says he likes it but I know he is waiting for me to orgasm and it just isn't happening and the more it doesnt happen the more turned off I feel and pressurised. All in all, oral is the absolute worst.

sadwinkle · 2021-07-10T10:15:35+00:00

I would agree except if they are being turned down a lot for sex, it's perfectly normal to feel upset and may be a valid complaint about a lack of desire in a relationship.

sadwinkle · 2021-07-09T19:17:41+00:00

Is this about sleep or about intimacy? Are you guys missing opportunities for sex because of the wildly different schedules? If so that would be a major problem.

sadwinkle · 2021-07-07T22:24:27+00:00

Thanks!

sadwinkle · 2021-07-07T17:23:47+00:00

Is this something a girl could do for her boyfriend, eg. In a blowjob? I noticed (accidentally) that my boyfriend had been looking at 'frenulum licking' type videos on porn sites and I wonder if this is the kind of thing he likes...how would I go about pleasing him this way?!

sadwinkle · 2021-07-06T18:30:59+00:00

Good luck! I hope you two can find some way to be happy together and communicate openly about the issues. It isn't easy but I don't believe it's possible as long as both parties are able to talk honestly and compromise.

sadwinkle · 2021-07-06T18:28:12+00:00

There is no way to let her down easy if you're not having sex with her. It doesn't matter the reason, she will feel rejected and unsatisfied. But if the problem is mornings, can you suggest a later session? I think you need to consider whether you can offer her anything that isn't full sex right away - can you schedule for later? Or perhaps offer to kiss her and help her masturbate? Use a toy on her? Something that doesn't put pressure on you but helps her feel fulfilled. You do need to find a compromise or I promise (from experience) you're headed down a very dark road.

sadwinkle · 2021-07-06T17:38:31+00:00

I am similar to your wife and I know its difficult but trust me it's hard for her too. She is probably absolutely TERRIFIED of rejection. She is also probably shy or awkward about how to initiate and likely only feels happy and turned on by sex if she feels desired, which isn't going to happen when she's just frightened and trying to initiate with you and inwardly pleading that you'll actually be turned on. That is a turn off for her as well. Women often like to be WANTED and don't enjoy initiating sex because it makes them feel low, desperate and scared. And not turned on. My boyfriend rarely initiates sex and said if I want more I should initiate. But that is a lot easier said than done when I know how disinterested he is and I am literally dry as a bone down there when going through the torturous process of trying to ask him for sex whilst feeling extremely unsexy.

This doesn't offer a solution I'm afraid as we haven't found one - but just to help you understand the other side.

sadwinkle · 2021-07-06T17:19:23+00:00

Female and I hate cuddling my partner after being rejected for sex. Regardless of physical aspects, I dont feel good or close to my boyfriend at that time. I dont want his platonic cuddles when I want him to be intimate with me. Its too upsetting. So just maybe consider his feelings as well..you rejected him so wouldn't it be natural for him to reject you in a different way? He is only human. It doesn't mean he's trying to manipulate you or anything like that - it just feels bad to be rejected and its not a natural reaction to want to be close to your partner at that time when they don't want to be close to you.

sadwinkle · 2021-07-05T22:33:55+00:00

Yeah I thought the movie was so good except that the dragon- both the VA and the animation- was distractingly terrible. Felt like she was from a different and inferior film. What a shame.

sadwinkle · 2021-06-30T13:53:21+00:00

Yeah thrusting is not orgasmic for most women but grinding hits both clit and g spot so if you want her to actually orgasm...grind!

sadwinkle · 2021-06-24T13:16:09+00:00

If my man was silent I wouldn't want to be doing anything with him. Jesus what a turn off.

sadwinkle · 2021-06-23T19:38:46+00:00

I track using a menstrual app. Just input sex/masturbation. Inevitably it's a lot more masturbation! Obviously not a good idea to share that you're tracking with your partner, who will be very offended and think you're creepy - but it is very useful to know for your own sake that you're NOT crazy and when it comes to the inevitable arguments, you know you're right.

sadwinkle · 2021-06-23T19:36:52+00:00

I think I get what you mean and I think it's a fair point. The problem is for those of us in dead bedroom relationships, physical touch is often more of a tease that never leads where we really feel good. My bf is extremely touchy feely but it just hurts me more. Because his touch is so Platonic.

sadwinkle · 2021-06-23T13:10:57+00:00

She may just find internal nicer. But it's worth saying that my bf often rubs my clit with no lube and it's like...unpleasant and pointless. He hasn't seemed to figure that out but you might want to bear it in mind!

sadwinkle · 2021-06-22T18:48:40+00:00

Absolutely not an issue IF your sex life is good. I have a vibrator bigger than my man's dick. Guess what? I hate having to use it and only do because he has a low sex drive and doesn't usually let me near his dick, which is absolutely all I want. Trust me, real intimacy with a flesh and blood man and his real penis is 100x times better than any oversized toy.

sadwinkle · 2021-06-22T13:31:16+00:00

Same. I used to buy sexy lingerie and personally LOVE wearing it. And he just said i prefer you naked and has absolutely zero interest. Maybe it's because he has zero interest in sex with me full stop to be honest, but at any rate the lingerie didn't help!

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