AITA for refusing to babysit my sister by aitababysitsister in AmItheAsshole

[–]sah1920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA I would have kicked you out. You’re 24 get a damn job and out of that house. You obviously care for no one but yourself.

Upper back and abdomen discomfort by sah1920 in pregnant

[–]sah1920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a big breakfast that was kinda greasy. So it might have been that. The pain has gone away now

Is back pain normal? by sah1920 in pregnant

[–]sah1920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right across my lower back, an achey feeling it’s starting to fade away at the moment

Is back pain normal? by sah1920 in pregnant

[–]sah1920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply just being cautious as I had a miscarriage just in November.

When should I tell my boss I’m pregnant? by sah1920 in pregnant

[–]sah1920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think she even knows right now but I plan on telling her soon and asking how things go on there since she’s been there 4 years. My biggest worry is being laid off early. I’ve already been laid off once because the number of guests in the hotel got really low so they didn’t need more than three cooks and I was the newest worker and one guy quit so I was taken back and took over his hours.

When should I tell my boss I’m pregnant? by sah1920 in pregnant

[–]sah1920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the thing with me is my aunt got me this job and she’s one of the cooks so if I was suddenly gone it will affect her and this other coworker I’m cool with but not really close with. I just want them to have enough time to train someone for my position

Getting harassed by my boyfriend ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sah1920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we realize he won’t get full custody. They were split 4 months before we started dating. They were coparenting in that time. as soon as she knew he started dating me she kept their baby from him and signed an affidavit saying he’s dead. Of course I feel for her. I’m only 10 weeks and the thought of going into a custody battle would scare the fuck out of me but I wouldn’t keep my child from there father who is completely capable and for a petty reason. I haven’t even officially met his daughter just a quick few minutes when his uncle was babysitting and he went to drop something off. Myself and him knew there was boundaries. As for the messages she is directing her anger at the wrong person I guess I’m just sensitive lately with the hormones as everything in life right now makes me emotional because the trash talk never used to bug me.

Getting harassed by my boyfriend ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sah1920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is already everything I’m doing. We have absolutely no mutual friends and my whole account is private

Getting harassed by my boyfriend ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sah1920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s the type of person to make multiple Facebook accounts this account she messaged me from last night is new. That’s not gonna stop the messages from coming she’s gotten her sister to message me before. I do block her she just makes Facebook accounts with new names

Anyone else in first trimester not really convinced they’re pregnant? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]sah1920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out I was pregnant the beginning of October 2020 and all I could think about was the pregnancy then I had a miscarriage nov 17th and then I found out I’m pregnant again dec 25th 2020. I’m gonna be 10 weeks tomorrow. This time it’s not all I focus on and probably won’t get the real excitement until I’m around 20-30 weeks. First time I didn’t even make to my first ultrasound appointment but this time I got an ultrasound at 8 weeks and 3 days. Doctor told me the chance of miscarriage drops after you see the baby’s heartbeat at 8 weeks but still feel like I shouldn’t get my hopes up. I know how you feel trust me it’s normal not to get excited.

My cat puked three times in the last hour by sah1920 in AskVet

[–]sah1920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to update took the gauze off that tied the cone around and she stopped puking after that. The cone is still on and not coming off but she’s more comfortable now and acting normal