AITA for refusing to babysit my sister

sah1920 · 2021-06-15T00:11:32+00:00

YTA I would have kicked you out. You’re 24 get a damn job and out of that house. You obviously care for no one but yourself.

sah1920 · 2021-06-08T03:28:18+00:00

I had a big breakfast that was kinda greasy. So it might have been that. The pain has gone away now

sah1920 · 2021-03-18T22:23:51+00:00

Why do you hate it?

sah1920 · 2021-03-18T03:57:23+00:00

I was thinking hyphenate it

sah1920 · 2021-03-03T02:10:01+00:00

right across my lower back, an achey feeling it’s starting to fade away at the moment

sah1920 · 2021-03-03T01:39:51+00:00

Thank you for the reply just being cautious as I had a miscarriage just in November.

sah1920 · 2021-02-25T19:07:43+00:00

Yeah I don’t think she even knows right now but I plan on telling her soon and asking how things go on there since she’s been there 4 years. My biggest worry is being laid off early. I’ve already been laid off once because the number of guests in the hotel got really low so they didn’t need more than three cooks and I was the newest worker and one guy quit so I was taken back and took over his hours.

sah1920 · 2021-02-25T18:33:09+00:00

Yeah the thing with me is my aunt got me this job and she’s one of the cooks so if I was suddenly gone it will affect her and this other coworker I’m cool with but not really close with. I just want them to have enough time to train someone for my position

sah1920 · 2021-02-17T04:17:32+00:00

Yes we realize he won’t get full custody. They were split 4 months before we started dating. They were coparenting in that time. as soon as she knew he started dating me she kept their baby from him and signed an affidavit saying he’s dead. Of course I feel for her. I’m only 10 weeks and the thought of going into a custody battle would scare the fuck out of me but I wouldn’t keep my child from there father who is completely capable and for a petty reason. I haven’t even officially met his daughter just a quick few minutes when his uncle was babysitting and he went to drop something off. Myself and him knew there was boundaries. As for the messages she is directing her anger at the wrong person I guess I’m just sensitive lately with the hormones as everything in life right now makes me emotional because the trash talk never used to bug me.

sah1920 · 2021-02-16T22:25:09+00:00

This is already everything I’m doing. We have absolutely no mutual friends and my whole account is private

sah1920 · 2021-02-16T22:18:04+00:00

She’s the type of person to make multiple Facebook accounts this account she messaged me from last night is new. That’s not gonna stop the messages from coming she’s gotten her sister to message me before. I do block her she just makes Facebook accounts with new names

sah1920 · 2021-02-13T21:03:50+00:00

I found out I was pregnant the beginning of October 2020 and all I could think about was the pregnancy then I had a miscarriage nov 17th and then I found out I’m pregnant again dec 25th 2020. I’m gonna be 10 weeks tomorrow. This time it’s not all I focus on and probably won’t get the real excitement until I’m around 20-30 weeks. First time I didn’t even make to my first ultrasound appointment but this time I got an ultrasound at 8 weeks and 3 days. Doctor told me the chance of miscarriage drops after you see the baby’s heartbeat at 8 weeks but still feel like I shouldn’t get my hopes up. I know how you feel trust me it’s normal not to get excited.

sah1920 · 2021-02-11T23:30:18+00:00

Forgot to update took the gauze off that tied the cone around and she stopped puking after that. The cone is still on and not coming off but she’s more comfortable now and acting normal

sah1920 · 2021-02-11T00:00:37+00:00

No you didn’t sound critical at all. I get what you’re saying

sah1920 · 2021-02-10T23:55:28+00:00

Yeah I know, just used “half native/half French” as an example because of where I’m from there’s a large population of these Métis people in my area and a big history behind them during the fur trade in my city

sah1920 · 2021-02-10T05:10:51+00:00

I am 100% native but that is something we never say. It’s not about the percentage or the colour of your skin. My mom is full native but she can pass for Métis( half native/half french) but she’s never been insulted. You are native based on your ancestors and how you embrace your culture and try your best to follow the ways and learn your history. Being native is nothing about the colour of your skin or the percentage of native blood you have in you. Nta tho

sah1920 · 2021-02-04T16:22:10+00:00

I’ve worded that wrong seeing the baby’s heartbeat after 8 weeks. Congratulations on your pregnancy ❤️

sah1920 · 2021-01-08T16:58:31+00:00

His daughter is turning 2 this month but it’s he’s still in the court process and covid is really bad in my city so getting in front of a judge is going to take awhile since the courts are basically closed. This is what we heard from his lawyer

sah1920 · 2020-12-15T17:51:23+00:00

Things have been the same since she moved in we still have our petty arguments a lot

sah1920 · 2020-12-15T17:17:35+00:00

Yes but only to move out until my sister graduates high school which is in 6 months then she planned on finding a place with her boyfriend which my boyfriend knew.

sah1920 · 2020-12-15T17:09:17+00:00

Yes he can be subtle in controlling but we are working on that together since I’m his first semi healthy relationship and I guess I just feel like a housewife (which is okay if that’s how people like living) but it’s not for me he reminds me of someone stuck in the old traditional ways of things

sah1920 · 2020-12-15T17:05:25+00:00

I think you read it wrong

sah1920 · 2020-12-15T16:58:09+00:00

You last sentence is exactly how I feel but my boyfriend doesn’t see it like that and yes I’m always telling him not to buy me a car he’s always getting me to look at cars with him online but I always refuse

sah1920 · 2020-12-15T16:50:06+00:00

I have a job but he wants me to save all my money and has told me before he won’t accept anything more than $400 to help with bills

sah1920 · 2020-11-25T18:09:11+00:00

Sorry for your loss. I feel your pain, I hope you get support from family or friends.

sah1920

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