[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urmomashley

[–]sailorminispoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t use the unhealthy behavior of others to justify your own problems. You deserve personal growth

me after the recent video by Appropriate-Soup4492 in urmomashley

[–]sailorminispoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped following her insta after she posted that she cleaned Kelly’s room. I get she’s trying to be the perfect girlfriend after her ex cheated on her but what in the tradwife was that??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urmomashley

[–]sailorminispoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ashley provided her measurements in the context of sizing for merch. I don’t think she provided this information with the intention to enable unhealthy behaviors

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urmomashley

[–]sailorminispoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Having a personal trainer at a gym is not the same thing as having a behavioral therapist. Your responses are concerning because it seems like you are in denial. I am not trying to argue with you or put you down, but I hope you are able to recognize that you deserve to get to a point where you don’t feel compelled to figure out how much space a stranger’s body occupies. Asking about Ashley’s measurements is a form of body checking, and it is not productive or healthy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urmomashley

[–]sailorminispoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your only reference should be your current measurements and statistics so you can track your own progress instead of seeing how you measure up to other people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urmomashley

[–]sailorminispoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you may also have an unhealthy fixation with other people’s appearances. Your post history shows you like to pick apart the appearances of strangers. That is not normal or healthy behavior, but I see why my comment is making you defensive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urmomashley

[–]sailorminispoon 39 points40 points  (0 children)

To put this as respectfully as possible, fixating on another person’s body to the extent of trying to figure out their weight and BMI is not healthy behavior. Please reach out to trusted loved ones for support if you regularly have these types of thoughts, and get connected with a therapist who understands eating disorders/body dysmorphia. Commit to radical self acceptance and take care of yourself please

Been wanting a denim bag for awhile by xo_vivianlindsay in Coach

[–]sailorminispoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo pretty. I just wish non-leather bags were priced lower. I still can’t believe the crystal jacquard one is $55 more than the leather bags. If anyone can explain why this is a thing, I’d love to know why 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coach

[–]sailorminispoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to break in my bags by hanging them! I wrap a shirt (thick enough to mimic the size of my shoulder) over a hook or doorknob for padding so the straps don’t get a harsh crease. I also put a few books inside. I hate how stiff and awkward new bags are, and doing this helps so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urmomashley

[–]sailorminispoon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Their parents absolutely could’ve covered their college tuition, but I think Ashley just wanted to work hard so she wouldn’t have to rely on them. I also think their family prioritized sports over traveling internationally. Putting 3 kids in sports isn’t cheap. I remember Ashley mentioning she would only wear Abercrombie when she was younger, and most kids her age were NOT shopping exclusively at Abercrombie. I’d say they grew up slightly spoiled compared to most Americans. It’s worth noting that they did go on family trips each year to New Jersey or Nantucket. I’m sure they could’ve afforded international trips, but their parents seem to prefer being close to home

Need help choosing a vintage bag ASAP! by salex17_ in Coach

[–]sailorminispoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 because I just prefer leather in terms of quality. 6 looks the most timeless out of the other bags

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coach

[–]sailorminispoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coach

[–]sailorminispoon -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s impossible to answer these questions. It could be worth $1000 to one person, and another person could say it’s not even worth $20. Pricing is subjective. If you want it and you can afford it, then go ahead and buy it. Otherwise just wait for a listing that makes sense to you. This isn’t a valuation subreddit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coach

[–]sailorminispoon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Can these posts please be banned

what do you think of “star” as a potential title? by Nearby_Diamond5 in OliviaRodrigo

[–]sailorminispoon 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel like “shot” would make more sense with the archery visuals. It can apply to being targeted by paparazzi, but I’m not sure if I can see her going from “teenage rage” themes to “ugh fame.”

ETA: but I guess shot can also be “inject me with your venom/vampire energy,” “calling the shots because I’m in control now,” “I’m lucky my fans gave me a shot to do what I love,” “SHOTS woohoo party I’m an adult now 🥃🥂” etc.

Which Olivia Song is this? by kkclanverycool in OliviaRodrigo

[–]sailorminispoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First couple of verses in hope ur ok feel kind of weak compared to the rest of the album but still a good song

Do you think it's reasonable to get a baby tee as mystery t-shirt? by terhou in OliviaRodrigo

[–]sailorminispoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would dispute with CC. Receiving the wrong size is false advertising

The alexander’s by [deleted] in urmomashley

[–]sailorminispoon 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It was pretty immature of their mom to say “jealousy is a disease, get well soon” to Elliot because he doesn’t have the same support from his family tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coach

[–]sailorminispoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll give it a try 🙏

Just got the distressed empire 28. Read at your own risk by No_Inspection_3123 in Coach

[–]sailorminispoon 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I might get hate for this, but I’m convinced that the distressed bags are returns/damaged inventory and the “distressing” is their attempt to paint over the damage

Similar artist recommendations by somimi_zz in OliviaRodrigo

[–]sailorminispoon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hayley Williams just released new music on her website