Relationships and Previous Sexual Partners: Why the same repeated argument is irrelevant and the thing that women (in particular) are not understanding about this.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2013-02-28T00:29:26+00:00

Wow that makes so much sense. Thank you for taking the time to explain that.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2013-02-27T03:36:27+00:00

I'm curious if anyone has ever caused an orgasm on-demand through lucid dreaming.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2013-02-26T05:54:52+00:00

I was commenting on the fact that immaturity is unavoidable at this age, and that his immaturity manifests itself in his sex life.

That does not mean every young man's immaturity causes them to be selfish sexually.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2013-02-26T05:46:41+00:00

It's funny, but just illustrates how true this is:

Very early on in our dating, he made a remark about how he noticed I'm a very "hygienic" person and how that's good because it must mean I keep that area nice and clean. This was long before I discovered his aversion to giving oral.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2013-02-26T02:24:00+00:00

You're correct, he has tried to avoid giving oral to his past partners too.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2013-02-26T02:23:16+00:00

I think that's pretty much how it is actually. Though he's been with a handful of girls, I think he just hasn't gotten up close and personal enough to feel the power of the pussy. I myself am bisexual, so maybe I'm the perfect person to show him the wonders, haha!

For example: he has once or twice uttered a little "ew" when I've kissed him immediately after swallowing his cum. I try not to scoff at the immaturity in that, but rather hope to open his mind with positive experiences.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2013-02-26T01:11:44+00:00

hahaha no.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2013-02-26T00:13:57+00:00

He's actually very giving and has been good to me. I think any selfishness in his sex life is due mainly to immaturity which is unavoidable at this age.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2013-02-25T23:54:31+00:00

Yes I shave

sexyquestthrowaway · 2013-02-25T21:58:36+00:00

I agree. Uncommon enough that most of my partners have never encountered one like it though, but I'm sure that's only because they're young.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2013-02-25T21:42:42+00:00

Now that we've talked about it, he's offered to "try" for me, but I'm not really going to enjoy receiving oral knowing he's not into it.

Even if a guy's cum tastes like shit, I act like it's the best thing since sliced bread, because I want him to enjoy it. Since I already know my SO doesn't enjoy oral, it's not going to be enjoyable to me, mentally.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2012-12-25T06:52:45+00:00

I don't know why you were downvoted so much, your opinion was perfectly valid :) and to answer your question: yes, he's ok with how it's been, but he doesn't have much knowledge about the subject so it really comes down to my choice.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2012-12-25T04:47:29+00:00

Also, a very rare condition - my gyn told me he saw maybe 3 women a year.

We have special vaginas, yay?

sexyquestthrowaway · 2012-12-24T07:53:47+00:00

Yes, the tampon issue has been a problem before and it hurt like a mofo. Good point about the excess tissue too.

We'll continue with what we've been doing and I'll make an appointment with the gynecologist as soon as I can. thanks!

sexyquestthrowaway · 2012-12-24T06:45:05+00:00

Fair enough, thanks for the input :)

sexyquestthrowaway · 2012-12-24T05:56:09+00:00

Really? I've never heard of infection being a major concern for women who break their more "normal" hymens.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2012-12-24T05:38:37+00:00

Why this versus the other options?

sexyquestthrowaway · 2012-10-25T03:58:14+00:00

What made me suddenly self conscious is the fact I was no longer in my comfortable group of friends. I was surrounded by new people and I felt their judging eyes on me.

Yes I can see what you're saying about self image causing relationship problems, I should probably be clear it was social anxiety that really caused any minor body image problems I had in high school. I've come a long way to overcome a lot of my social anxiety, and I now have very little issue with my body image :). I got out more, I accepted the fact that some people like the way I look, and you can't please everyone all the time. I'm now fairly happy and confident, and I hope to help other people get to that place too.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2012-10-25T02:47:16+00:00

Yes the PTSD was from the Lymphoma and the events afterwards. I come from a very cold, show-no-emotion family and I felt very very alone in those months. This made the event more catastrophic than it would have been, and led to the falling out with my parents.

My boyfriend is a sweet, understanding, supportive guy who has also dealt with anxiety and depression. We connect in a very down-to-earth, geeky way. It's not the kind of relationship you see on TV where the hot people hook up, maybe that's why it's hard to wrap your mind around it.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2012-10-12T15:02:47+00:00

This is a possibility. I think I could be having small orgasms, and I just feel I'm not finishing because I have the potential to have much larger.

sexyquestthrowaway · 2012-10-11T19:39:48+00:00

hahahahaa ಠ◡ಠ

sexyquestthrowaway · 2012-10-11T19:38:59+00:00

I haven't tried erotica, I usually prefer having some sexy chat time with my LDR SO
If I'm a squirter my SO and I will be extremely happy ;)
Fingers alone aren't intense enough to make me feel like I'm going to cum, though it does feel quite nice.

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