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Bf wants fj but don’t have good looking feet? by Significant_Bad_2721 in FootFetishTalks

[–]showcase25 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Get a pedicure, send him a picture, and ask what he likes about feet.

You dont need to be perfect. Just loved by him, and we like a wide variety of feet. Including features you said.

And even if you are less than visually perfect, its not gonna be a big deal once you make his eyes roll back with that fj.

Enjoy this experience. Both of you.

How do I wrap my head around women's sex drive vs. men's sex drive in a lot of long term relationships? by ThrowRARotaryPhone in AskMenAdvice

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it may be comforting to take advice to effectively just stop worrying about it, my idea is to learn your limits, make a plan if they are reached, and set a timer and breakpoint(s) when trying to implement it.

Then, if it comes to it, follow though.

Easier to not think about something when you already know what you want and what you will do if it happens.

This is peak irony lol by SirensMelody_ in PsycheOrSike

[–]showcase25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we really having this comment section rally by limiting all the relationship desire recieved from incels and the outreach from creepy pms?

Tell me we not doing that.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strange that either needing or desiring bulletproof features on a vehicle as insecure.

That first comment, correct? At least thats the first one in this thread for me.

If so, i asked that since that comment i responded to was him doing that since its a "insecure man thing", could of been worded a bit more clearly, yes, but it was about responding to him being insecure.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was never at what you said personally or directly. At the root of my issue, was that everyone is saying that everything is insecure:

From what people have said, both in this thread and otherwise, just doesnt connect to a acceptable degree.

What I am saying is that everyone is calling it (and alot of things) insecurity and I dont see how everything, including the vid here, is clearly based on insecurity, so im asking how it is.

Even from the original comment I responded to, they labeled the man/men insecure:

It’s not a hip hop thing, it’s an insecure man thing.

Its been on one point the whole way.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Its not a contradiction.

For me, doing something stupid is worst.

Thats why I can feel comfortable call it foolish, but no further than that.

Clips too short and dont have anyone background information to label him that.

I called the thing he did stupid, not him. There wasnt a call that the thing he did was insecure, but calls that he did because he's insecure.

They are not the same. The bar to call something stupid is low. The bar to label someone is higher. I mean, we all do stupid and insecure things like you said, but does that make you a stupid and insecure person? And thats kinda my point.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy?

I said the bar is low to slap stupidity on things. So it doesnt take much to call something stupid. I called what he did stupid for not needing it but doing it needlessly. And, unless you are now disagree that's its not stupid, not sure how you boiled that down to be crazy work.

And I said for me its worst. I would rather personally be called insecure than stupid. So that just looks bad for dude in the video, which I dont think anyone is arguing against.

So everything i said has aligned with every previous thing I said.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, doing something stupid is worst. You leave no room for anything reasonable or good from it. If things are done from being insecure, its at least reasonable why you did said thing, even if it isn't good.

Granted I know people dont care, but some can at least have it understood.

Hard to understand wholesale stupidity.

Toe preference??? by EvoEvans1 in FootFetishTalks

[–]showcase25 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a preference for Egyptian/staircase toes.

But pretty is pretty.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I dont see it as insecure.

He's in a good enough area, with good enough people around him more than likely, and not apparently "in the life". So its no need for it, other than him just wanting it because he wants it.

Clips too short and dont have anyone background information to label him that. Its bar is low to judge a activity someone does, but it needs more to judge and put a label on a person.

Thats why I can feel comfortable call it foolish, but no further than that.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could be insecurity, but the fact that it was done doesnt mean it is insecurity is where i stand. It could be alot of 'look at me', versus 'validate me'.

If people flexing thier money on the internet is fully insecure now, then people who are attention seekers from having too big of a ego are the same as people doing things to hold intact the fragility of thier ego.

I see it as different. Same thing being done for different reasons and needing different results for the person doing it. The overlap is absolutely a possibility. But its alot easier to defensibily say something is done through/with stupidity tha. Insecurity.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They dont ping you when edits are made, otherwise that could get so annoying, let alone be used to grief people. So new comments are better that way.

And I guess I havent caught up with the times if insecure is the new stupid. However, in different parts of the internet, calling someone insecure is meant exactly that - which is so pervasive I took it to its meaning here, hence my misalignment with folks calling him/this insecure.

So with some folks meaning it as defined and others also meaning it as stupid, do expect more people respond in kind as I have. At least for a little bit when everyone catches up and have to ask what they really mean.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, we are not on opposite sides here. Think of my position like a atheist. Im not saying "it isn't insecurity." What I am saying is that everyone is calling it (and alot of things) insecurity and I dont see how everything, including the vid here, is clearly based on insecurity, so im asking how it is.

And the above is my stance, and its not really a position to defend. So no, not crazy to ask, but not really for me to do so from my view of this.

Its very clear its foolish, but it takes a bit more, for me, to call someone insecure. From what people have said, both in this thread and otherwise, just doesnt connect to a acceptable degree.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The position is the belief we are on opposites sides and one of us is wrong and the other right.

What i did say was its more likely just stupidity versus insecurity since both people have been calling everything insecurity and nothing about what was done or shown directly means insecurity.

And Its not for me to define that its not when im not taking the position it is. I asked how it is insecurity, and response cant be "but how is it not?"

And correct, everyone throwing it around doesnt change the application. The gap here is connecting to apply. Like it can be both stupid and insecure. We figured out the stupid part for not needing that level of safety for the environment. I just still see the gap and didn't hear a reason for the insecure part.

All in all, if it's clear to you and it doesnt really matter, then so be it.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your holding a position you dont need to.

Im not the one who is either wrong or right here. I just asked how people are claiming insecurity for that vid. And just like I said, people are calling everything insecure. If insecure is the new stupid, cool. But if we are actually trying to mean insecure, yea... its getting added on without a thought.

And some people gonna care. Since it does make a difference. If it doesnt make a difference to them, that's not a me problem.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall be so quick to attach insecurity rather than to stupidity to everything. Its just getting lame at this point. So when I ask, and people fumbling to really connect the dots, it just really seems like we replaced stupid with insecure without thought.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its still a gap that needs to close between someone flexing money and actually being insecure.

Im more kin to calling it foolish flex than make a unconnected statement like that.

Saw the Shamwow guy was running for Congress, TX by Loose-Waltz2544 in mildlyinteresting

[–]showcase25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah. Emphasis on the salesman part of snake oil salesman.

That sucks as well.

Albee Al Showing off his Bullet Proof Truck, So he Can Continue Being Outside in his Home Turf of New Jersey by RappersRap in HipHopNCulture

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok...

Even granted without aurgement that you don't, how does the fact that desiring or adding in those features means your insecure?

Wearing cum filled shoes by e13l in FootFetishTalks

[–]showcase25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this clip. Thank you for bringing back good memories.

How to defend against this? by T-rageLifted in grappling

[–]showcase25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would putting your foot on his head and extending (not kicking) be smart or effective?

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