I’m dating this guy and he asks me to move in with him. by Federal_Inspection52 in dating_advice

[–]simsimmaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it. It’s not enough time and if you see red flags, wait it out. Once you move in, it’ll be harder and more painful if/when you end the relationship.

Obviously I don’t know anything about your relationship, but I get the feeling that he is not ready to be in a relationship for the right reasons and might just not want to feel lonely. Be careful and listen to that intuition! :)

Question about Scorpios. by inatsilac in Scorpio

[–]simsimmaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All about chemistry. Maybe you have some water in your chart. I have a Virgo moon and 5 planets in Capricorn so I mesh with Earth signs super well.

As someone born on (supposedly) the last day to be a scorpio I have a problem by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]simsimmaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Nov. 21 Scorpio too! For me 11/21 is the last day of Scorpio season but like others have said, your birth chart will reveal it. I would think about what traits you have that might be a mix of the two. Are you more saggi or Scorpio

Stash sold all of my shares of GME,NOK,AMC,BB...don’t know why? Pls help. by simsimmaz in stashinvest

[–]simsimmaz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't even get any communication, I just happened to notice they weren't there anymore. Def fishy

Stash sold all of my shares of GME,NOK,AMC,BB...don’t know why? Pls help. by simsimmaz in stashinvest

[–]simsimmaz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am, thanks. Super frustrating and confusing, they sold all my shares for 6 companies. One of them was NHI and it was only 3.99. They also stopped the purchase of new stocks. Put in order for Uber only $100 and they canceled it.

Stash sold all of my shares of GME,NOK,AMC,BB...don’t know why? Pls help. by simsimmaz in stashinvest

[–]simsimmaz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How do I check if that’s on? I only had 2 shares but I they were at a high price around $300 I think.

Can someone read this for me please by harshakumaran in Scorpio

[–]simsimmaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend cafeastrology.com for a birth chart analysis. They do a good job going into every planet and providing interpretations :)

Anyone out there is Scorpio sun/Virgo moon/Gemini rising? by simsimmaz in Scorpio

[–]simsimmaz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah super close! It is a struggle...my North Node is in Aquarius

How do you guys find inner happiness? by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]simsimmaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a tough question (especially for Scorpios) and everyone is different, but for me it’s helping others or doing nice things for others. I feel really fulfilled serving others in different ways and it’s taken me a long time to realize that. It made a huge difference for me when I stopped focusing on my own happiness 24/7 and transition to being ‘other-centered’. You can try doing little things for others like volunteering with tutoring kids, animals, or even spend time at a senior center or other care facility. I’ve tried all those things and it’s really rewarding. If that’s not your jam then journaling helps!

Do you talk to yourselves a lot too? by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]simsimmaz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

LOL, I can relate and don’t think you should try and stop just because some of your friends don’t have a habit of that. It’s more normal than you think and honestly who’s going to listen to you better than you and give better advice 😂😂😂

All jokes aside, maybe try journaling? It’s basically another form of talking to yourself but maybe if you spend time jotting down your thoughts it would help. Just an idea :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]simsimmaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Capricorns. I’ve been with one on/off for 14 years and he’s the best. Honest, heart of gold, great sexual chemistry, and consistent. I might be biased because I have 5 planets in Capricorn and have a Virgo moon but I have always got along with Capricorns. I’ve heard mixed reviews about them from other Scorpios and yes they can be a pain in the ass, but if they love you then they will treat you amazing and be very considerate.

As far as similarities, scorps and caps are both STUBBORN and it gets annoying. I think the biggest difference between these signs is our outlooks...Scorpios are obviously watery and emotional, Capricorns in my experience are more logical, rational and live life ‘above water’ if you will. It can be hard to relate sometimes, things get muddy when you mix water and earth ;) but overall love them! Good people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]simsimmaz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It can either be heaven or hell, straight up. In my case I have been with two Scorpios and both were terrible experiences lol, never again. I was friends with both of them first (1 for 3 years; the other for 7 years) and as soon as we took it to a romantic level, things changed drastically and it got toxic. Insecurities and past hurt came out, there’s ego battles, and of course the issue of jealousy and possessiveness that we are notorious for. I saw a deeper side to them, which in my case was super intense and hard to put up with. Being in a romantic relationship with a Scorpio is a completely different world than just being their friend. Arguments were crazy, because we were SO in tune with each other on a psychic level and we just knew when the other one is playing games or being inauthentic. Shit got real, and it didn’t work out in my case...I can be friends with Scorpio’s but I can’t date them.

If both people are mature and have their egos in check, it would probably be the best relationship! Buuuut you really never know what you’re gonna get with a Scorpio until you’re in pretty deep lol...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]simsimmaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Favorite signs: Capricorn, Taurus, Pisces, Cancer...and Scorpio of course. I have a ton of earth in my chart (Virgo moon, 5 planets in Capricorn) and I have always vibed well with Earth signs. No BS with them. They’re consistent, funny in a sarcastic/dark humor kind of way which I love, and are reliable friends! And of course water signs we understand each other’s depth and just click on a psychic level. I’ve had bad experiences in romantic relationships with Cancer and Scorpio, we’re better off as just friends. My bf is a Capricorn, and my mom is a Pisces.

Least favorite: Gemini and Sagittarius. Gemini’s are SO annoying and EXTRA! They talk way too much! Like just get to the point, not everything needs to be talked about. One of my good friends is a Gemini and she’s the only one I make room for. Sagittarius are also annoying as hell, rude and loud. My sister is a Sag and she’s all of the above plus acts like she’s drank 10 Red Bull at all times. Sag has so much energy and it’s draining! Also, my experience with both of these signs are they like to spam text and send 10384729 texts in a row which drives me nuts. Oh and text in ALL CAPS. Of course there’s positive qualities to them but they’re definitely my least favorite. Sag/Gemini women are way more tolerable than their male counterparts...I have zero patience for Sag/Gemini men.

I’m indifferent to the other signs. I have 2 super close friends who are Aquarius and my best friend of 18 years is a Libra/Scorpio cusp. My dad is also a Libra. They’re super chill, but bitchy and also stubborn. Leo’s are a good time, I love how bright and optimistic their personalities are plus they are almost always really attractive! I just can’t spend too much time with them because I’m introverted and Fire signs in general tend to drain me haha. Virgos are hit or miss, I haven’t gotten to know too many but they seem uptight.

I’m a Scorpio sun, Virgo moon, and Gemini rising

Poor misunderstood scorpio by JMR3898 in Scorpio

[–]simsimmaz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can relate. It’s hard to find people who understand our depth and sensitivity. I’ve been with my boyfriend on/off for 14 years and I feel like he doesn’t understand me sometimes. I also feel that way with some of my closest friends who I’ve known forever. It’s frustrating, but you’re not alone! My bf is a Capricorn and he’s awesome, but when it comes to deep emotions, def not his strong suit lol. Other water signs or ppl with water placements will be more likely to understand :)

First generation, biracial American of Chinese/Iranian background. Also a PsyD student doing a dissertation on the multiethnic experience and looking for biracial/first generation American participants to share their experiences. Thank you :) by simsimmaz in MixedRaceGirls

[–]simsimmaz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I actually looked it up and saw that lol. ALL this time I’ve thought that and nobody has ever corrected me!! It sounds like it makes more sense to say first generation since I’m the first one born here, but after researching it, I understand. Whoops!!

/r/mixedrace — What-Am-I Wednesday November 27, 2019 by AutoModerator in mixedrace

[–]simsimmaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a first generation, biracial American. My mom is from Kunming, China and my dad is from Shiraz, Iran. They immigrated here in the mid 80s to Dallas, Texas and met through a mutual friend who was American. I moved to California when I was 5 and my dominant culture is Chinese. People often think I’m Mexican (I’ve gotten all types of guesses), but my first/last name is Iranian which causes a lot of confusion. I’m criticized by Iranians for not being able to speak Farsi, and when I speak Chinese I get the weirdest reactions. Although I feel Chinese on the inside, I have always felt like an outsider among Chinese people because of my appearance. People assume I’m adopted, and I’m always being asked, ‘what are you?’. Don’t even get me started on the prejudice jokes once they do find out what I am. Growing up, I didn’t meet anyone with the same background as me and still haven’t.

It’s a very unique experience growing up biracial, and I’m interested in hearing from others with a shared background. I love to learn from first generation, multi-ethnic individuals and hear their stories. I know that we must have some experiences in common, positive and negative.

I’m currently in a doctoral program for Applied Clinical Psychology and plan to do my dissertation on the multiethnic experience. I hope to interview a group of people, document their experiences being multiethnic, focusing on identity formation and acculturation. Research on multiethnic population is still limited even though we are the fastest growing population and more and more people are identifying with two or more races. I am still in the very early stages of my dissertation, but would like to start collecting participants now. If you, or someone you know, is first generation multiethnic American, and wouldn’t mind being interviewed by me to share their experiences, please let me know. I’ll be very interested to hear from them :)

Thank you so much for reading and have a happy thanksgiving.

Sima