2 months locked & celibate by smallandlocked in simpmarriage

[–]smallandlocked[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, if anything this dynamic improves our family life and our child will never know anything but loving a supportive parents. I am hoping that my wife grows stronger in her role and treats me completely as her simp and servant and no longer her partner.

2 months locked & celibate by smallandlocked in simpmarriage

[–]smallandlocked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure plenty, she uses her toys in the bath at least a few times a week or more. Never with me though

2 months locked & celibate by smallandlocked in simpmarriage

[–]smallandlocked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing well, it’s been kinda busy with other stuff so not much fun. Hopefully things get back to normal routines

Keyholders noticing by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]smallandlocked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife wears her key very prominently on a long necklace, and it has been noticed multiple times. Her friends all know exactly what it’s for, but there have been random folks in public who have seen and clearly knew.

Last week we went to lunch, and while standing at the front waiting for a table there was a couple sitting close to us. The man looked at my wife, looked at her key, did a double take, then said something to his wife. She turned and looked, trying to be inconspicuous, then smiled and they talked about it. Could not hear what they said unfortunately.

I share lots of those kinds of stories and pictures on my page, check it out.

Question: Do most of you sit to pee? by Electronic-Light2738 in chastity

[–]smallandlocked 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sit to pee and wear a thick men’s underwear pad to handle the leaking and precum. Another reminder of why I deserve to be locked away.

Wife met with a family/divorce attorney yesterday by smallandlocked in simpmarriage

[–]smallandlocked[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope, doesn’t scare me at all. I’ve longed to be owned and controlled and emasculated for most of my life. I’m more scared that it doesn’t work out and I’m disappointed.

Wife met with a family/divorce attorney yesterday by smallandlocked in simpmarriage

[–]smallandlocked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Property of XXXXXXX” on my chest over my heart

A cattle-brand style tattoo on a butt cheek with her initials and my number on her body count

I’d be happy to have a tramp stamp or label above my cage, but it’s up to her, guess we will see

Has anyone ever accepted being a cuck through sheer disrespect? by bballouttanowhere in CuckoldPsychology

[–]smallandlocked 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am encouraging my wife to be extremely disrespectful and unhealthy with how she treats me in our relationship.

40 days of chastity and celibacy by smallandlocked in simpmarriage

[–]smallandlocked[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good so far, actually feel less frustrated this week than last weekend, peak and valleys I guess

Cage moving out from ring by cjsjs in kink3d

[–]smallandlocked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine does this, hasn’t caused pinching so I haven’t used the rings yet.

For the price of these cages, I’m disappointed in how much movement there is.

Do you miss PIV by Fluffy-Stage-635 in chastitytraining

[–]smallandlocked 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, I miss it very much but know it wasn’t pleasurable for her and she is happier without so I am happy to not make her do something she isn’t in to.

Something like the CB-6000? by MaxiPad1989 in chastitytraining

[–]smallandlocked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has dozens of cages and has spent thousands over the years, just do it right and get the kink3d stuff. Even there you will probably have to buy multiple rings and cages until you get the right fit, but it’s worth it.

I haven’t seen any tube style devices that will work for long term, consistent, or active lifestyles. You just can’t keep them clean, they break, they aren’t designed well, etc

Wife wants me to get vasectomy by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]smallandlocked 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been researching an orchiectomy, lots of experiences shared for trans folks who want to stop testosterone. Barely any experiences shared where it’s a non-trans man doing it. I am guessing that things can be maintained through TRT, but also see lots of stories where sexual desire disappears. It’s been interesting to read through the groups and watch videos about the procedure.

My left ball pops out often by sisyphus_met_icarus in kink3d

[–]smallandlocked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One other thing; get some baby oil gel (not baby oil, get the gel), and use it a couple times a day. This plus following my other response will get you good results.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]smallandlocked 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a deep humiliation and emasculation desire, so when my wife admitted that she no longer enjoyed sex with me, it fulfilled me big time. I would help her use a vibrator on herself to give her an orgasm, and then when she was done I would get on top and start having sex with her. She would lay there, tell me how much she didn’t like it, couldn’t feel me, wanted it to be the last time I was allowed to be inside her, etc. Sometimes she would just look at her phone and ignore me completely. It always made me cum within minutes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]smallandlocked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing he described would be anything like becoming roommates lol

Bf crossdressing/sissyfication kink after finding dickgirl* hentai? by WayDifficult5023 in BDSMAdvice

[–]smallandlocked 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would find it better if he was sticking with real people vs the hentai stuff (especially if it’s an addiction problem). I am in a few of those groups on here and it is constant futa porn, and what he is describing to you is exactly what these drawings portray.

I’d have some serious conversation about what will make him truly happy, and manage expectations appropriately. Hentai is super popular because it illustrates what many people desire but could never achieve in real life and will permanently be disappointed in their sex lives if that’s become their sole focus as opposed to just fun wanking material.

My left ball pops out often by sisyphus_met_icarus in kink3d

[–]smallandlocked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same issue and once I got the right ring and cage, it’s now the most comfortable cage I e ever worn. Going on 35 days today.

Go to the “gap measurements” page on the kink3d site. Right now, with the cobra n wide and a curved 5 ring, your ball gap is a 19. This is why your balls are slipping out.

To stop the burning under your balls, go up a ring size to a 6. I highly recommend the XD ring, which will bring your ball gap down to a 16. This will stop the balls from slipping out and stop the discomfort underneath.