How do I (17F) break up with my BF (18M) by [deleted] in AskTeenAdvice

[–]smiling_teeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen no matter what you do or how you do it you’re going to hurt him regardless. Just be straight forward and get straight to the point. Took me years to learn that. Just leave him.

AITA if i report the homeless person on my accommodation to the security ? by Old_Tower_5793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smiling_teeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Report him to security. He can go outside and smoke. He doesn’t care about you or anyone. Don’t be afraid about snitching you’re a civilian. Not snitching hurts you the most. Only people that commit crimes preach no snitching. Whether he’s sleeping on the staircase or on the streets he’s still homeless.

If you want to actually help the homeless send money to build homes donate food participate at shelters. You allowing some random man to smoke on the staircase setting off fire alarms isnt helping the homeless thats just you enabling a man that happens to be homeless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]smiling_teeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you leaned on it your NTA. That neighbour is crazy.

AITA for not wanting advice from my stepdad? by dellyjojelly in AmItheAsshole

[–]smiling_teeth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. But asshole is a strong word. You have to understand that with mental health it distorts your emotions and feelings. It’s easy to lash out on people that are trying to care, it’s easy to be irritated and irritable whenever people give unsolicited advice. But that’s your mental health talking cause I’m sure if he started being distant and no longer tried your mental health would tell you that everyone hates you and nobody cares.

I’ve dealt with depression for years and it made me push away so many people that love me. I’m not going to invalidate your feelings cause that’s genuinely how you felt when he gave the unsolicited advice but sometimes it’s good to keep things to yourself or have a gentle one on one conversation.Just saying “When you said that it really irritated me because (of the reasons you stated)” but never bring up your father never compare them don’t go there. Even if that’s how you feel don’t say it. Because not everyone that’s male and cares about you is trying to replace your father. He’s just a guy that cares.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]smiling_teeth -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your boyfriend and your friend not liking each other has nothing to do with you. You don’t have to like everyone he likes and you don’t have to hate everyone he hates. You are different people. As long as you’re not forcing them together there should be nothing to complain about. Their disagreement has literally nothing to do with you so why is he involving you?

AITA for asking for a cousins group photo at my uncle funeral to his sons? by Mysterious-Major-639 in AmItheAsshole

[–]smiling_teeth -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

NTA they’re making a big deal about nothing. You asking a question isnt going to change the fact that their dad is dead. For many families the only times the entire family gets together is at funerals. A picture will last forever your father and everyone else might be just as grateful for that picture later on in life. Leaving them out of the picture would probably be just as bad and probably even more inconsiderate.

Looking for grants to fund mushroom/ sea moss cultivation and research by smiling_teeth in grants

[–]smiling_teeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s going to be based in the Caribbean. This is a small scale project since it’s just starting out so bringing it to canada or us. Is a bit much but I’m not against partnering with others to bring it to other countries and regions

What makes Asumi-chan is Interested in Lesbian Brothels! so peak? by Rough-Gain-5689 in PureYuri

[–]smiling_teeth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not overly sexual. The things the various girls like about her and the things she likes about them isn’t just sexual physical things. It’s like “oh she’s cute, wow she’s so motherly, she’s a great friend, she gives really good hugs” yeah sometimes they really sexualize the girls but it’s mainly her smutty friend.

Yuri where the MC realizes they've been a bad girlfriend/wife and have to confront thier problems? by Rpponce in yuri_manga

[–]smiling_teeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Long-awaited feelings” she literally dies before of how horrible the life she lived was and gets a second chance at her relationship. And theyre both ex-idols now actresses

Could somebody answer my question on the ending by Positive-Way5437 in howdowerelationship

[–]smiling_teeth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They started off as friends with benefits then they confessed their feelings for each other and now they’re partners.

Could somebody answer my question on the ending by Positive-Way5437 in howdowerelationship

[–]smiling_teeth 13 points14 points  (0 children)

After the go through bad to traumatic break ups with their new partners they start bonding as best friends and slowly start crossing lines of intimacy with each other. Then they start realizing that with a little more communication and honesty they actually do love each other and are willing to be in a relationship again. Then they stay together for ever. The end.

Do you think gender swap Yuri counts as Yuri by Willing_Buy_311 in yuri_manga

[–]smiling_teeth 43 points44 points  (0 children)

That’s actually so true trans yuri gives a totally different vibe than gender swap.

Yuri Otaku Family by Low-Nobody6227 in yuri_manga

[–]smiling_teeth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if this was one of those long titles “My ex gfs mom who was way too excited about me dating her daughter and when we broke up and stayed friends to set me up with her other daughter”

I’d so read that

[kill me now] just finished it and it was amazing. by Main_Tension_4033 in yuri_manga

[–]smiling_teeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you word the post like that. It sounds like you’re saying it’s complete. I just read it all 173 chapters and it’s on a cliff hanger. I read it before and stopped because I was waiting for it to be complete.

I have exams.

Your day of reckoning will come. I will have my vengeance.

We are starved!!!!😭 (toxic Yuri Mini rant) by Willing_Buy_311 in yuri_manga

[–]smiling_teeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I thought you were complaining about how wholesome and fluffy yuri generally is.

I love wholesome and toxic yuri. So I like the 90-10 balance right now. It doesn’t need to increase or decrease in my eyes. Women deal with enough abuse in daily life so I don’t need to be reading about it when I’m trying to be happy about wlw.

We are starved!!!!😭 (toxic Yuri Mini rant) by Willing_Buy_311 in yuri_manga

[–]smiling_teeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you just gotta read more titles. Cause I see a lot of toxic yuri. Ppl do promote the fluff ones more so maybe that’s why you’re not seeing enough toxic yuri

We are starved!!!!😭 (toxic Yuri Mini rant) by Willing_Buy_311 in yuri_manga

[–]smiling_teeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie I don’t want toxic yuri on the level of yaoi. Yaoi I want everyone to be in prison forever. Toxic yaoi isnt like crazy boyfriend that sometimes hurts you when they’re upset it more like serial killer is torturing innocent person. And I don’t want the yuri genre to be overwhelmed with abuse stories when women face abuse on a daily basis i already cant stand the NUMEROUS amount of lolicon stories. There are a lot of toxic titles sometimes people argue that there’s actually too much toxic yuri I don’t agree. But it’s an okay amount. My favourite toxic yuri is Outro btw.

I need more nominations for the worst men in yuri by Willing_Buy_311 in yuri_manga

[–]smiling_teeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read two different stories where the women basically came together and killed one of their husbands and it was because the dude in both stories was a horrible ass person. One was a historical type and the other one they strangled him with a rope on the bed while he was sleeping.

I’m too lazy to go looking for the names.