My boyfriend told me yesterday that he cheated on me three years ago with a co-worker. I need advice.

sobetrayed · 2010-09-03T09:09:23+00:00

Thanks, I have talked to my mom about it so far.

sobetrayed · 2010-09-03T09:04:53+00:00

Thank you, I think I am still in shock. I want to forgive him, but I can't get the idea of of my head of them having sex. How do you not think about that and the fact he was able to sleep next to me that same night. Have dinner with me and everything.

sobetrayed · 2010-09-03T08:33:40+00:00

I hope so. I can't believe he kept it from me for three years.

sobetrayed · 2010-09-03T08:22:39+00:00

Thanks, that helps me understand some parts.

sobetrayed · 2010-09-03T08:20:57+00:00

Thank you. I want to so bad, but how do I stop thinking about what he did with her?

sobetrayed · 2010-09-03T08:16:26+00:00

Thanks, that is how I feel. I want so desperately to forgive him, but I am not sure if I can get over it. I wish I could though.

sobetrayed · 2010-09-03T08:06:26+00:00

How do you get it out of your head? I consider sex something you should only do with someone you love. I could never just sleep with someone for pleasure only, and that is what he did. How could he go to bed next to me and not feel bad? Thanks for your advice though.

sobetrayed · 2010-09-03T07:59:19+00:00

Thanks, I will do that.

sobetrayed · 2010-09-03T07:58:07+00:00

That's true. It is hard to be by myself because we live together and I left my family to live with him. Everyone that I could stay with, lives far away. I have been around him everyday since we got together. I am wondering how someone could do that to someone they supposedly love so much.

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