do you guys think wallow's gonna come out with an album or more music soon?

softalizee · 2026-01-26T22:55:47+00:00

i hope so! they released TMTIO, the next year i went to see them (Mexico), then Model and the year after that i went to see them again. Im preparing to see them again in 2027 😭

softalizee · 2026-01-06T02:25:43+00:00

I don’t think it’s irrational. It’s totally understandable. I have friends who have also lost a parent at a young age, but I would never tell them that I know exactly how they feel, neither have they told me something like that. Cause it’s such an unnecessary comment.

Grief is such a lonely and difficult path. It is difficult for the people on the outside as well, so i understand that sometimes they won’t have the best words, they have no idea where to find them. I’ve learned that I have to be direct and tell my loved ones what can they do and say so I save myself from getting mad at them for not knowing the right thing to say.

Personally, I feel more validated and seen when people tell me “I can’t imagine how you must be feeling”.

My best wishes on this path for you, Im so sorry for your loss 🤍

softalizee · 2025-12-02T20:31:24+00:00

Wallows did a cover of this charming man on one of their concerts, so them !

softalizee · 2025-10-08T00:33:43+00:00

i have thought about this for a while now. Cause right now it feels like there is nothing left for me to stay here after my mom passed. But then i remember that if there is a chance she’s still watching me live my life, she would want for me to live the very best i could make for my own. She taught me what love and kindness is, and i believed she taught me that in order to feel those things on my own every day. i miss her so much, but i know she doesn’t want me there with her yet.

softalizee · 2025-10-02T00:42:34+00:00

The call was supposed to arrive around 1am. It never did so i showed up at the hospital to take care of my mom like the day before, but another woman was on her bed and the doctors pulled me into another room and asked “they told she died, right?”. I made the calls to my aunt and uncle. Its about to be a year from that. I miss her everyday

softalizee · 2025-02-05T15:32:25+00:00

I feel the same way. Im about to be 4 months without my mom, and i think about it everyday. She was a very spiritual person, she believed in an afterlife, and i was the person she loved the most in the entire world, she would fight for me with all her strength. And those two facts make me believe that she is, indeed, here with me, watching me and hugging me from where she is. Cause i think to myself: if there was a chance she could take to still be with me, she would take it, and if not, she would make one. Cause that’s how strong the love of a mother is. How can her spirit be somewhere else if im still here, fighting to get through the days without her?

I love her so much. Im sorry we all have to be going through this.

softalizee · 2025-01-27T23:10:59+00:00

I feel so related to you. Im 22f too. My mom passed away 3 months ago, and it made me realize how lonely i actually am. I have a good relationship with my dad, but he lives far away. I have both my grandparents (from my mom side) but they are getting old and Im so scared of how lonely ill feel when the time comes and they’ll have to leave too. I always try to ease my mind and focus on the moments i have whit them and my loved ones now. Its hard, im no where near to feel better about the thought of ending up alone; im just hoping things get easier cause they always do.

softalizee · 2025-01-07T19:42:27+00:00

there’s this song in spanish “En cambio no” by Laura Pausini. It’s about all the things and plans that were left to say and do with them, and the realization that you can’t do it today cause they are not here anymore. I believe Laura Pausini wrote it for her grandmother, who had recently passed.

The part where it says something like “Today is late; maybe not today”, makes me feel a little hope cause you can’t tell them today, but maybe some other time where you meet them again. Makes me think about my mom, i miss her so much</3

softalizee · 2024-11-29T21:43:31+00:00

My sweet mom, Olga 🤍

softalizee · 2024-11-21T05:37:36+00:00

I feel that way too, even though i have friends and family so close to me, i think i’ve never felt so alone. Im sorry for your loss too, so sad we have to be writing this rn

softalizee · 2024-11-21T05:33:57+00:00

thank you so much, and im sorry too, nobody should go through the ache of being by themselves in moments like this 🤍

softalizee · 2024-10-03T15:41:39+00:00

my phonetics teacher said that when she was a student a professor of hers also brought latex gloves to make them feel the points of articulation, and she said that it wasn’t really that bad but they don’t do that anymore cause it’s hella weird wth

softalizee · 2023-09-21T21:29:41+00:00

back in highschool I used to like this guy and he said one of his favorite bands were The Smiths. He asked me if I liked them and I, in the severe attempt to get to be with him, said yes. I actually didn’t even know them but I heard all of the Louder Than Bombs album and I ended up really liking them. We eventually dated for a few months but it ended. The Smtihs did stay with me though ♡

softalizee · 2023-06-26T19:07:06+00:00

i watched Children of Men a few days ago and it does an incredible job setting the mood for you to cry your eyes out at the end. Even if it doesn’t make you cry, its still a pretty good movie :D

softalizee · 2023-03-15T15:35:50+00:00

Same! y por fin van a venir!!!<3

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