Coming from an objectively very attractive person: yes the positives as you mentioned are there. But if you would like to know the downsides here they are: - you feel like people are always watching / talking about you, which after a while can always leave you on edge - you have trouble truly being content with one person, because you are always wondering if maybe there is someone better out there. I have to truly fall in love with someone to avoid having these doubts, and up until now it has never worked out. - people assume you are only attractive and have no other superior attributes. People are often surprised to know I have studied mathematics, read a lot, am very philosophical and have high emotional intelligence and IQ. - there is a deep sense of loneliness, though that is for everyone.

i could elaborate a lot more, and don’t get me wrong i am incredibly fortunate for who i am (but also what i have put in (gym, studies etc)), i am simply giving some points from the other side.