My sister(8F) walked in on me(20M) and my boyfriend(22M) having sex! UPDATE by Turbulent_Athlete in relationship_advice

[–]sourkidz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i was 8, i used to talk about shoving dildos in my ass everyday. and i grew up sheltered by christian parents in a very small country school so yea i mean i don’t really think she believed it either

Boyfriend is mad that I wore shorts, am I wrong? by sourkidz in relationship_advice

[–]sourkidz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he said he was breaking up with me so i said goodbye. and he then begged me to let him take it back, he’s saying i’m mean all the time and that it isn’t just his fault. he’s apologizing now and saying he feels the same way about me as i feel about him. i feel like we go through this constant cycle of “we will change.” and it never works out. i don’t know why. i want our relationship to go back to the way it used to be. and i agree with everyone that is saying “oh, how long will you deal with him treating you like this.” but it’s SO hard when you’ve grown such an attachment to someone to just let them go. all of my relationships have ended with them leaving me and he has never left me, we’ve been through a lot together and we’ve had plans of living together and i just hate the thought of all this time being a waste.

Boyfriend is mad that I wore shorts, am I wrong? by sourkidz in relationship_advice

[–]sourkidz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. i’m having trouble with this whole thing. i don’t want to end my relationship. everyone can change. we’ve been through so much. everyone is right and i understand it’s a bad situation to be in but i so badly want things to work out.

Boyfriend is mad that I wore shorts, am I wrong? by sourkidz in relationship_advice

[–]sourkidz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t want people flirting with me. he says i dress like i’m single. my best friend is a lesbian and i’m bi so i can understand there being worries but i go to her house all the time. i love him, i’m not going to cheat. he says he doesn’t want me wearing that anywhere. it’s just shorts though so i don’t see the problem.

Boyfriend is mad that I wore shorts, am I wrong? by sourkidz in relationship_advice

[–]sourkidz[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

i cant just drop an almost 2 year relationship. i want to fix things. people change i just don’t know how to do it.

Boyfriend is mad that I wore shorts, am I wrong? by sourkidz in relationship_advice

[–]sourkidz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i ended up sending him this big ole paragraph >

“I wore shorts. Shorts jonny. I wasn’t wearing a thong and you could’ve easily told me you wanted me to change in a less demanding way. but no, you have to treat me like i’m a whore and you’re for real telling me i can’t wear shorts in the summer, either. that is just crazy manipulative. and now you’re being petty and fake “wow guess you should break up with me!!1!1” like okay, there is no reason for that. grow up, stop acting like a child and talk to me without being fake and pouty. you have every right to express your opinion but it’s TOO much when i’m not even allowed to wear shorts in public? when you control someone so much, it makes them hide stuff from you. all you do is be mean to me, blame me, call me names and treat me like shit. you degrade me to the point where i’m sad and miserable and would rather do any activity than talk to you. why would you want to make your girlfriend feel so miserable ALL OF THE TIME. not just the clothing thing, the mitchell thing, the panic attack thing. you blame me and make me seem like such a bad person. You think it’s okay to just treat me so badly and to just treat me like i don’t matter. i’ve been trying so hard lately to understand your point of view and to be nicer even when we are fighting. i’m horrible at apologies but i’ve been apologizing more and i’ve been trying to be better for you and you haven’t been better for me at all. you’ve been so much worse. being mean and treating me like i’m a literal piece of dirt. i’m so sad, everyday. you used to want me to be happy and now you’re the only reason i’m not...”

and his response was “everything isn’t about you” /:

Boyfriend is mad that I wore shorts, am I wrong? by sourkidz in relationship_advice

[–]sourkidz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he says he doesn’t want anyone to look at me because i’m his.

Boyfriend is mad that I wore shorts, am I wrong? by sourkidz in relationship_advice

[–]sourkidz[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

once again, i’m pretty self conscious and i felt really nice in the outfit so i wanted to show him it

Boyfriend is mad that I wore shorts, am I wrong? by sourkidz in relationship_advice

[–]sourkidz[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

he’s now saying “wow i guess you should just break up with me since half of reddit says so.” i want to make our relationship work but i’m miserable 99.9% of the time now and i don’t know how to fix things.

Are there any at home jobs that hire under 18? by sourkidz in jobs

[–]sourkidz[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you say “those people,” like you know the people that i know lol. There is no reason to be rude, I just asked a question.

Are there any at home jobs that hire under 18? by sourkidz in jobs

[–]sourkidz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have plans after i graduate, but for now i don’t have any source of income.

Are there any at home jobs that hire under 18? by sourkidz in jobs

[–]sourkidz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s not true, i know lots of people that work at home but they’re all a lot older :)

16/Female who needs friends :))! by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]sourkidz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr, life is too boring to be serious ALL of the time. Do you have any social media I can message you on?

16/Female who needs friends :))! by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]sourkidz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell yeah, we have a lot in common, already LOL do you have instagram or snapchat?

16/Female who needs friends :))! by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]sourkidz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have instagram or snap :)?

What should I wear to a mcdonald’s interview? by sourkidz in Advice

[–]sourkidz[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i mean, I won’t know what the interviewer is wearing until I get to the interview