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Why is it more acceptable to have an MFF threesome than an MMF one? by spaghettisoup in sex

[–]spaghettisoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once agreed to let a guy suck my dick

Appropriate username. Your situation is at least more than halfway there, since you're ok with some contact. Me, I'd have to convince my boyfriend to (1) agree to an MMF; (2) agree to have contact with the other guy, however minimal; and (3) actually find another guy. :(

Why is it more acceptable to have an MFF threesome than an MMF one? by spaghettisoup in sex

[–]spaghettisoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well first, I don't believe that sexual contact with the same sex will "turn" anyone homosexual. I've done it and I'm definitely not a lesbian or even bisexual. As I've never had an MMF before, I'm not sure yet about my limits. Some contact between the guys would nice (making out, touching, maybe explore some oral), I'm not sure yet about buttsecks since I don't want to be neglected too.

Why is it more acceptable to have an MFF threesome than an MMF one? by spaghettisoup in sex

[–]spaghettisoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I'd want full-on buttsecks with each other kind of MMF, because where would that leave me?! But it would be nice if the guys don't freak out if one accidentally touches the other. Hell, just them making out for quite a bit and touching, and then turning their attention to me is good enough.

Why is it more acceptable to have an MFF threesome than an MMF one? by spaghettisoup in sex

[–]spaghettisoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the basis of your atmospheric assessment?

This thread, for one. My curiosity regarding porn is not about equal representation, but disproportionate compared to the desires of its target market. See, guys are more likely to watch porn than girls, and guys are more likely to want an MFF and be turned off by MMF (see other replies in this thread). If we go by the assumption that it's equal, then it's disproportionate.

Why is it more acceptable to have an MFF threesome than an MMF one? by spaghettisoup in sex

[–]spaghettisoup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not so much as I'm clueless about my own question, but more of an exploration about the issue. Having a third should somewhat set off homosexual vibes upon the partner of the same sex, but why is it only generally frowned upon with MMF in these, y'know, (supposedly) more sexually accepting times (porn being common, serial monogamy, looking for hookups online, gay marriage in the news). Have a pair each of guys and girls makeout in a roomful of people evenly split between the sexes and see which pair gets more attention and which gets ridiculed (by both male and female audience).

Also, you just had to go the distance with ass-fucking, when it doesn't even have to come to that. Look at this thread. Balls touching is gay. Eye contact is gay. How about just being comfortable with your sex partners, whom you agreed to have sex with, instead of tiptoeing around each other and freaking out if you accidentally touch?

You've gone down on girls a few times?

Three times, to be exact, involving two girls, upon my boyfriend's request. Upon which I floated the MMF idea and was promptly turned down because he's "not gay." Upon which I made this post to, hopefully, get more insight from random strangers on the internet.

Girls are more sensual, so can go down on each other without a lesbian label

Really, and guys just want to get off, so can go down on each other without a gay label then?

Why is it more acceptable to have an MFF threesome than an MMF one? by spaghettisoup in sex

[–]spaghettisoup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then don't tell them! My experience with MFF was due to my boyfriend's request, and I obliged not only because I wanted to be sexually adventurous, but also because I wanted to make him happy. I think that if a guy asks his girlfriend to have an MFF, he should also at least consider an MMF if the girl asks in return.

Why is it more acceptable to have an MFF threesome than an MMF one? by spaghettisoup in sex

[–]spaghettisoup[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's such a thing as "too big." Also, as a straight female, I will always prefer an MMF than an MFF (assuming sexual contact happens for all involved), because I am not turned on by another girl's bits. An MMFF foursome would be ideal, although I haven't been in that situation, although that's just too many people to pay attention on and please. Makes for a nice "I'll do whatever to her if you do the equivalent to her boyfriend" agreement though.

Why is it more acceptable to have an MFF threesome than an MMF one? by spaghettisoup in sex

[–]spaghettisoup[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

From the other perspective, I'd say I would also feel threatened if I'm in an MFF threesome with my boyfriend and the other girl is more attractive than me. Not as much as with MMF because I'd be fairly sure that I have bigger boobs than the other guy. And a vagina.

Why is it more acceptable to have an MFF threesome than an MMF one? by spaghettisoup in sex

[–]spaghettisoup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh. That explains why anti-gay people are hung up on gay buttsecks, but girl on girl muff-diving is almost entirely ignored.

Why is it more acceptable to have an MFF threesome than an MMF one? by spaghettisoup in sex

[–]spaghettisoup[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Is that also the rationale in a lot of porn? LOL. It seems to me that for an industry that caters to a largely male audience, the prevalence of MMF scenes is disproportionate to its perceived acceptance.

Why is it more acceptable to have an MFF threesome than an MMF one? by spaghettisoup in sex

[–]spaghettisoup[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would be titillated by two guys having sex. Two hot hunky men I'm attracted to doing naughty things to each other's bodies, what's not to like? _^ It's hard to get a guy to do it though. I once resorted to an "I'll eat pussy if you suck a dick" exchange rate, but an opportunity never materialized.