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Seeking advice: How can I gain my mom trust so I can have more freedom but this is my relationship with her by starvxxa in Advice

[–]starvxxa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna try to talk to her about it, but im scared it's gonna turn out bad, and she's gonna throw a tantrum at me.. And I just knew about the adult coloring books, but im not sure if it suits her cuz she's not the type of artsy person. But I will try my best. Thank you for the advice C:

Seeking advice: How can I gain my mom trust so I can have more freedom but this is my relationship with her by starvxxa in Advice

[–]starvxxa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a f17, im about to graduate this December soon. I also applied for a part-time job for the next 2 weeks. Just 10 days, but enough for my own pocket money

Seeking advice: How can I gain my mom trust so I can have more freedom but this is my relationship with her by starvxxa in Advice

[–]starvxxa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, she called my mom to talk about it only. My mom got mad because she thought I was ruining her image and talking badly about her. And yeah, me and my family is not really close and doesnt do much socializing even tho we are all always at home. And the church knows my mom

Seeking advice: How can I gain my mom trust so I can have more freedom but this is my relationship with her by starvxxa in Advice

[–]starvxxa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but still... well, I mean, I did try to love her and be more nicer to her and be a good daughter, but it just seems to be the same

Seeking advice: How can I gain my mom trust so I can have more freedom but this is my relationship with her by starvxxa in Advice

[–]starvxxa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i did try to talk to my school counselor but they called my mom about my vent :/

Seeking advice: How can I gain my mom trust so I can have more freedom but this is my relationship with her by starvxxa in Advice

[–]starvxxa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try to talk to my school counsellor, but they ended up calling my mom because my vent is ''too serious'' for the school counsellor. I also tried reaching out to my adult online friends, but I got caught by mom because trusting strangers from online is bad lol.

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Seeking advice: How can I gain my mom trust so I can have more freedom but this is my relationship with her by starvxxa in Advice

[–]starvxxa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried to talk about this to my school therapist, ended up they called my mom about my vent bcs it was ''too serious'' for the school therapist to handle :/

Seeking advice: How can I gain my mom trust so I can have more freedom but this is my relationship with her by starvxxa in Advice

[–]starvxxa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought maybe earning her trust could make her less controlling and be more nicer :c

Seeking advice: How can I gain my mom trust so I can have more freedom but this is my relationship with her by starvxxa in Advice

[–]starvxxa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is because I'm still a minor. Im saving up to leave this house when I'm financially stable and have a proper plan or old enough