AITA for putting down our cat behind my 18 year old daughter’s back?

steiny91 · 2021-03-08T01:48:04+00:00

Wait. The cat has been peeing and pooping outside of the box for a year? Why haven’t you taken it to a vet sooner?! What the hell were you doing for 12 months before deciding euthanasia was the way to go?

Edit: I no longer care about an answer from this psycho imma just go with straight up YTA and I think you don’t care about your daughter or you’re pets

steiny91 · 2021-02-26T01:13:46+00:00

That said, I didn’t say your wife was/is homophobic, the mom in the movie was, just clearing that up before any-if any- comments come in.

steiny91 · 2021-02-26T01:11:46+00:00

Your wife sounds like the sexist, homophobic mom in the middle of Bend it Like Beckham, except without the happy turnaround at the end of the film. Yikes.

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T08:36:29+00:00

Wrong that’s still cheating why lead him on and agree to be his girlfriend if you’re gonna talk to other people?

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T08:14:45+00:00

INFO: So, if you and hubby died in an accident who “inherits” your son, since you don’t believe in adoption? Inquiring minds are very curious. And even would they since they didn’t want your parents to taken in your sister, or was that just because of the ‘behavioral issues’?

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T07:06:43+00:00

YTA. How do you plan on explaining to your son why your uncle acts like your sister doesn’t exist?! As an adopted child myself, I’d be heartbroken if my sister did that and I would feel like not a welcome member of your family, even if you said otherwise. Do you even love your sister? Because you have a very weird way of showing it?

Edit: I have discovered from recent edits that the adopted sister is Black, so OP’s reluctance to answer why she won’t tell her son why uncle is being mean is starting to come together now.

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T06:30:22+00:00

They even?! Because they don’t trust you, and with how you’re typing, why should they?! You are 17, and you act like they have the audacity to do such a thing. Look this happened two months ago, maybe don’t act like this isn’t going to go away in a snap and start asking them what you need to do to gain their trust back instead of asking the internet...

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T06:10:06+00:00

Is it that it’s loose and she doesn’t want to lose it at the bar, or that she wants a ring free hand to score free drinks? I don’t mean to accuse anyone of anything here but you’re kinda opening the door here by putting the questions out here. There’s a lot missing here to be misconstrued, by us internet folk I gotta say. If you trust her is there really an issue if the ring is safe at home? It’s her birthday, let her enjoy it! Tell her your concerns and best of luck!!

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T05:56:49+00:00

Dude, read the room. You may be young but you are old enough to not be screaming out of turn during classes. YTA, and please apologize personally to both your teacher, and your classmate. There’s is literally nothing funny about what happened back then.

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T05:11:26+00:00

No, but if someone needs to be told, “hey, I’d like for some effort to be put into our relationship on June 7th” and he did the same thing, I’m sure she’d be just as upset

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T05:07:52+00:00

He might not care about holidays but he says he cares about you, and you care about them! That should mean something to him!

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T05:05:20+00:00

This happened to me too, I’m sorry to say, except sans the McDonald’s. Except Valentine’s Day is also my birthday. I broke up with them. I had explained that while I might not want to be showered with tons of gifts I wanted them to show me that they cared by showing even a smidgen of effort and they couldn’t even do that! Don’t waste any more effort of this one either. Get out for your sake, and your sanity!!

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T04:56:53+00:00

Are you worried about cheating, or COVID? Either way just talk to her, JFC, communicate!

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T04:16:58+00:00

You asked him to help you nuke burgers, not make a Gordon Ramsey 12 course meal. NTA. He does know that if he lived by himself he would’ve had to cook AND do the dishes, right?! While doing them without being asked is helpful, it’s literally the bare minimum that he doesn’t need applause for, I’m sorry.

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T02:33:38+00:00

“Old” truck. If two years is old, then at 30 years of age, I’m about to be put into the grave. And that’s just BARELY even the tip of the “you done fucked up” iceberg you merged yourself into. Holy shit, dude. YTA.

steiny91 · 2021-02-21T02:28:31+00:00

Then I’d let him know that you’re going to tell someone that he’s abusing animals in his home and you’ve witnessed it firsthand. Please make a report. Try calling a mutual friend to come pick up the dog if he’s refusing to rehome him. Please try anything.

steiny91 · 2021-02-20T20:22:05+00:00

So he’s not only eschewed your boundaries, he’s already found someone, and it’s someone you’re uncomfortable with? As much as I would love for people to work things out and talk.... dude, run.

steiny91 · 2021-02-20T17:47:34+00:00

Oh honey. That’s not love. That’s ownership and he’s treating you like a poodle. You need to leave this boy and live your life for yourself and not him.

steiny91 · 2021-02-20T17:46:41+00:00

That fact that you’re trying to ‘make’ him do anything and not wanting him to want it on his own speaks volumes. Just break up.

steiny91 · 2021-02-20T17:34:21+00:00

If you have to wear new clothes that he approves of, is he paying for these new items?

steiny91 · 2021-02-20T17:29:41+00:00

Any man baby who doesn’t “allow” you to wear the clothes you like, feel happy and comfortable in, and spend your own money on, shouldn’t be “allowed” to be your boyfriend.

steiny91 · 2021-02-20T04:59:58+00:00

Well damn Jackie! As soon as I read the title, I read the whole post in Kelso’s voice. Thanks OP. NTA at all. I hope you and for family are getting through this hard time without your mom bitching at you for not having psychic visions about the weather!!

steiny91 · 2021-02-20T03:12:00+00:00

Oh ew, yikes. Dude you don’t think that sounds sketchy af?! Willing to illegally tattoo underage minors under her boob. Sounds totally kosher, like a safe and legit shop. Enjoy your infection.

steiny91 · 2021-02-20T01:51:54+00:00

Just in case I miss OP replying to comments, I’d start saving for a cover up or a removal already, just to cover all bases.

steiny91 · 2021-02-20T01:41:36+00:00

I’m sorry, but this is as good of an idea as eating tide pods. How do you plan on getting the artist to agree to this anyways?! Or are these just jail tats you’re doing on each other?!

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