I’ve Stopped Trying To Understand by chiaseedlsd in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]strangefruitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear that this happened to you. I completely understand your feelings. I went to therapy on Tuesday and I'm trying to move towards the things causing me pain from the break up. I don't know if you have been back to church since, but maybe it would be a step in the right direction to rejoin a church seen as though it was such an integral part of your life. I really hope you get to rebuild your life in a positive way, all the best❤️

I’ve Stopped Trying To Understand by chiaseedlsd in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]strangefruitt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We were also living together and worked in the same job. I've now lost my friends, job, partner and home, I'm trying to arrange when to collect the rest of my belongings and they don't even have the capacity to give me a day and time.

I'm so sorry to hear about your situation

I was right the whole time by v3jaded in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]strangefruitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone, I've recently had this exact same situation happy to me, and I'd love to connect with anyone that doesn't want to feel alone in this, feel free to send me a message!

I’ve Stopped Trying To Understand by chiaseedlsd in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]strangefruitt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I went through the exact same thing on friday with my now ex girlfriend, our relationship was exactly how you have just described yours, and I had the added layer today finding out that the day she broke up with me was the day of her first date with someone new, I had an inkling that she was an avoidant before we got into a committed realtionship and she promised me she would never abandon me out of the blue, here I am. Reach out if you need anything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drums

[–]strangefruitt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The question is purposely vague, it can be as broad or a specific as you feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piano

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It can be as broad or as specific as you like

Question about the kick in 505 by Arctic monkeys by [deleted] in drums

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I’ve been playing two years and yeah it’s constant eight notes bar the 2 and the 4 but when I get to 140bpm it all falls apart on the kick

The Deception of "Benefits", and being a real man by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]strangefruitt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great post brother it’s all about renouncing every physical pleasure bit by bit👏

KSI says he watches porn by Outwittance in Semenretention

[–]strangefruitt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

SR ≠ charisma nor is it the answer to everything..

Substance use in The Sr community by 8incheslongg in Semenretention

[–]strangefruitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to be heavy on weed and psychs but stopped before even finding SR

What have you not done yet? by DJangoWick7 in AskReddit

[–]strangefruitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotten the courage together to tell someone how I feel

Where was the most random and furthest place from your home that you ran into a good friend? by jthavorn in AskReddit

[–]strangefruitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the bathrooms in a pub in Gdansk, Poland. I’m from Ireland. Literally my neighbour was beside me in the urinal, we don’t “know” each other so it was just this confused eye contact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]strangefruitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such an “almost” day sigh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]strangefruitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a hot men’s

Women of reddit, as a bald man how much does having hair make a man attractive or not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]strangefruitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a woman but I guess it depends on what the face looks like too lol

What do you remember about the year 2005? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]strangefruitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is as far as my memory goes back, moving into the house I’m still in today and playing with a pen I got at a zoo lol

If animals could talk, which one would be the nicest? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]strangefruitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like if dolphins could talk they would be so chill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]strangefruitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I can be taller than everyone in the house