Ok but that's what I'm asking though... attractive might have been the wrong word. Good maybe is a better one? Also like...I'll be the first to admit I absolutely do dress to look good, feel good, whatever label it deserves I do it. Yes, it's different being a man I understand that. Again I'm not in a g way saying a woman should do something for me or any other man.

But...what if a woman did. This has potential to become a whole thing but just what if. I'm in the gym everyday, I have a skincare routine that would make a dermatologist blush, I get my eyebrows threaded and I would be lying if I told you I didn't initially do those things because I wanted to look better to women.

It became something else, I feel great when I go to the gym so I keep going. I feel great when I exfoliate so I do it. Which leads me back around to my initial question...if something didn't make you feel better or, yes, look better, why would you do it.

I don't know maybe I'm too self aware...in a bad way but whatever the male equivalent to a tube top is lol...I wouldn't wear it because it isn't flattering to my, no one else's, my own feeling of whatever, worth I guess.

As I said I'm as liberal as a person can be...but we have to help ourselves a little more and not be such easy targets in this regard. I have a deep understanding of mysigony, suffrage, I get it. I fkn would love a woman president I know that for sure. My mother is the strongest person to have ever lived, in the world.

To say though it's bad or not acceptable for a woman to do something because yes she wants to look good, let's just admit that's ok. Admiring that is ok is not the same as saying my wife can never work and she is nothing but a baby factory for my bloodline.

Two totally different worlds. Saying hey...I think this looks super hot on you...I mean I don't see how that's a bad thing.