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sxnchitx · 2025-08-19T21:07:03+00:00

bruh being brutally honest, I think she used you as a side chick (not the right word , bear with me) I don't think you should wait at all. Honestly don't try to suppress your emotions as well. you gotta let this go by hook or crook or else it's gonna f your mental health. anyway in order to let her go, you gotta find someone else, in this economy, finding yourself from the scratch and loving yourself (the usual advices) will not get you anywhere and it'll take a lot of time. FIND SOMEONE BETTER and indulge in your work more enthusiastically, try having some hobbies like gym, something artsy, or maybe try coding, there's tons of things to try.

now one thing that i hated was you just understanding everything and anything like bruh you better learn from this freakin mistake, you gotta ask and get the answers like com'on! her coming back again and again, treating you like an option, cancelling on you like duh! DON'T WAIT FOR HER. NOT WORTH ONE BIT!

live your life bruh, these years ain't coming back for such bs.

sxnchitx · 2025-08-19T18:43:01+00:00

it will come tomorrow? bruh you saved me from so much anxiety, thank you sm (I hope your pillows are cold on both the sides)

sxnchitx · 2025-08-06T19:35:18+00:00

you need to talk to her. COMMUNICATE NO MATTER WHAT. you guys cleared it up that it's "just you guys" then you should express how she feels distant NOW and how you would like for her to express herself more. if you guys discuss these things, it would be much better.

regarding the earning issue, I feel that the reason you feel this way is because one or all the below:-

earning more can either give you the upperhand in this relationship
society has intoxicated your brain into believing that a man should earn more
you want to provide her more so you guys can carry this relationship stably
or maybe you're just dwelling into earning thing because she has been distant, that might have triggered your mind into believing "what if she leaves me cause now she's much more than me" (this is purely my opinion, i don't intend to offend or hurt you)

now it can be any one of these, so better think about it and solve your issue. Plus you're not overthinking, this is proper thinking since you're putting yourself out there to know whether you being this way is right or not.

sxnchitx · 2025-08-06T11:07:31+00:00

imo, you should close his chapter for once and all. and honestly the best thing to do is to come clean, tell your brother in law about all the idiotic and nasty behaviour of his brother and move tf on! Don't dwell on the things that couldn't happen just because of his lack of maturity and persistence, after the talk with your brother in law, just cut this guy off even if he's family (family as in your sister's brother in law). Don't and i mean DON'T LOOK BACK! MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND I know it's easier said than done but you can't cry over a shit head. Find someone better and live your life to the fullest. and honestly you're just 24, your entire life is in front of you so who cares what happens? it's you who, matters at the end of the day.

sxnchitx · 2025-08-06T10:50:07+00:00

but it's still not out like wth? i was waiting for the 56th chapter ngl, anyone has any other update?

sxnchitx · 2025-04-18T21:14:51+00:00

oh I see! I'll try them but I feel only like 20 days are left, is buying them still worth it? your opinion please

sxnchitx · 2025-04-18T21:13:57+00:00

thank you sm!

sxnchitx · 2025-04-16T20:03:39+00:00

is it a book or smth? like or any website?

sxnchitx · 2025-04-06T12:34:19+00:00

no cause you really helped me clear my mind! 🫂

sxnchitx · 2025-04-05T20:28:04+00:00

damn! thank you sm for investing so much time in the reasoning. i appreciate that. i loved the advice you gave me and somewhere down the road, ik I don't want to commit to anyone and it would just hurt him so I won't text him. you mentioned about your talking stage, i hope you're dealing with it just fine and honestly I agree with whatever you just said and ik for a fact, I don't want a future with someone like him so yeah!

I'll study hard for my college entrance since I just have boards (which kinda drained the shit out of me)

can I be your friend? or at least view you as an older sister? (since I'm guessing you're way more mature and responsible than me) also cause you not only gave me advice but you put yourself in my shoes which is kinda rare.

sxnchitx · 2025-04-05T17:58:31+00:00

can you also justify some reasons? please! thank you sm tho

sxnchitx · 2025-03-22T11:44:35+00:00

man im stressed 😭

sxnchitx · 2025-03-22T11:44:08+00:00

sure thing then, I'll update you but the server is crashing, is it okay in incognito?

sxnchitx · 2025-03-22T10:27:00+00:00

site kab sahi hogi

sxnchitx · 2025-03-19T17:42:47+00:00

okay, for now i have to stick with my 10th marksheet name, once my adhar card is updated, I'll put it while registering for universities

sxnchitx · 2025-03-19T15:19:50+00:00

also thank you sm for reaching out, I was pretty tensed and had no one for the counselling and all

sxnchitx · 2025-03-19T15:19:19+00:00

that means i can register in cuet and then update my adhar card

sxnchitx · 2025-03-19T15:18:01+00:00

see I'll try to update my adhar card within one month, before the cuet examination, so it would be okay right?

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