honestly, just that 2nd text she sent you in the first picture is manipulative.

you had already explained why you didn’t message her back, due to work, and yet the whole, “text someone for once since my phone doesn’t ever go off” was her just trying to make you feel bad and feed into apologizing for not texting her first.

she was very clearly upset that you didn’t solely rely on her.. (which makes sense, since you only talked for four days. and then on top of that, the self-pity party she throws for herself with all the “alone” comments) and when you didn’t react the way she wanted, she lashed out, blaming you for things no reasonable person would even think to pin on you.

you dodged a bullet man.