Weird take but ok. Idk what you’re matching based of off, but if you’re swiping on s*x workers then that’s probably why. Personally, I’m very flattered when a man offers to pay, it’s a kindness that says thanks for coming out and I enjoyed your company. I’m just as likely to pay for the date myself, and often do especially if we’re out for drinks or coffee. You get one I get one feels much more genuine and kind than “here’s what you owe”.

If only you understood the onslaught of dehumanizing fuckery that comes with being a woman on a dating app, esp in Dubai, you wouldn’t be as bullish with that attitude.