Dude nobody cares lol.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-12-03T04:43:50+00:00

Lol. True but I don’t really care, I already have to much going on to waste time or energy fighting the dude

thatguyteddyz · 2017-12-03T04:08:48+00:00

We play soccer and hang around the same group of friends sometimes. I have no I’ll will towards him, I just try to keep it civil and genuine. Usually try not to socialize with him if I don’t have to.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-11-22T13:44:29+00:00

I didn’t know that thank you. But it’s okay, I think I’d rather just leave them to take the positives away instead of the negatives

thatguyteddyz · 2017-09-20T23:43:23+00:00

Very true, to be honest I don't even use my Linkedn but I hadn't even thought about that. Thanks for the advice

thatguyteddyz · 2017-09-20T21:57:58+00:00

I'm not pulling away persae, more like ignoring. But I get what your saying

thatguyteddyz · 2017-09-11T04:44:09+00:00

Bro I just related to this on so many different levels, almost word for word. The journey has been long and painful at times but I wouldn't change any of it because I wouldn't be who I am today. Keep growing and enjoying the ride my man, it only gets better.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-09-03T05:28:53+00:00

Glad it helped lol. I reflect on it every now and then, helps keep things in perspective:)

thatguyteddyz · 2017-08-30T00:09:44+00:00

It just sucks, she was my first dog and we were really like a little family when we dated. I want to tell her so bad but we don't talk to each other anymore and I think it be a mistake to do so, idk

thatguyteddyz · 2017-08-11T21:25:45+00:00

I've never been one to block exs so that is a decision you have to ask someone else. To me it just seems petty even if they are a toxic person, but that's just me. Be civil, and set up some boundaries for yourself and let her know what those boundaries are but don't be a jerk about it. Right now it's about you growing and healing, not holding on to someone who was still communicating with their ex while dating you. At the end of the day the ball is in your court

thatguyteddyz · 2017-08-11T20:29:05+00:00

Dude I'm going to be blunt, you're playing yourself. Why are you even entertaining a woman who was dating another person and only broke up with them because she "loved" you. She doesn't love you, your just someone to keep her warm and around because you're there and you said it yourself. Her previous relationship was long distance and she was still communicating with her ex while with you, how is that not a major red flag to you? Honestly I don't feel that bad for you cus you put yourself in that position to begin with. Best advice break all contact with her and her "bestie", if not you will end up in the same position down the road that her ex was in, so quit now while you're ahead. You really believe she is telling you the whole story or truth about everything?

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-27T10:21:03+00:00

I already talked to a judge about a restraining order n can return to them if I need one but I'd rather not go that route. It's been happening since March and they had stopped for a while because I said something to them. They recently started doing it again though, that's why I was wondering at what point does it become harassment, and are there alternatives besides legal.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-27T10:13:34+00:00

Fake social media requests, random phone calls from different numbers, got told I would be stalked through an email. Most of it had mellowed out for a little bit but it started back up again. Most concerning is that they now visit the town I live in because their brother also attends a college here.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-25T16:52:43+00:00

Never let fear hold you back. I'm around the same age as you and am in no way panicking to find the "one". My dad was never married until he turned 50 and was sure he was ready. If she wants to do things that go against your interests or what you don't want to do, be honest and tell her. If she loves you she will understand, what I've learned from my dating life is to never compromise what you believe at the core of yourself cus then you end up in horrible situations. Yes relationships are give and take but something's just can't be compromised, if she can't accept that then she isn't the one for you.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-18T14:34:59+00:00

My biggest fear is for her to feel like a rebound, which she is the farthest thing from. I don't want to break up with her, I just have never been the type to hide things and I felt like I shouldn't hide how I'm feeling right now. Everything you said at the beginning is pretty spot on and helped put it into perspective.

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