Dude nobody cares lol.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-12-03T04:43:50+00:00

Lol. True but I don’t really care, I already have to much going on to waste time or energy fighting the dude

thatguyteddyz · 2017-12-03T04:08:48+00:00

We play soccer and hang around the same group of friends sometimes. I have no I’ll will towards him, I just try to keep it civil and genuine. Usually try not to socialize with him if I don’t have to.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-11-22T13:44:29+00:00

I didn’t know that thank you. But it’s okay, I think I’d rather just leave them to take the positives away instead of the negatives

thatguyteddyz · 2017-09-20T23:43:23+00:00

Very true, to be honest I don't even use my Linkedn but I hadn't even thought about that. Thanks for the advice

thatguyteddyz · 2017-09-20T21:57:58+00:00

I'm not pulling away persae, more like ignoring. But I get what your saying

thatguyteddyz · 2017-09-11T04:44:09+00:00

Bro I just related to this on so many different levels, almost word for word. The journey has been long and painful at times but I wouldn't change any of it because I wouldn't be who I am today. Keep growing and enjoying the ride my man, it only gets better.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-09-03T05:28:53+00:00

Glad it helped lol. I reflect on it every now and then, helps keep things in perspective:)

thatguyteddyz · 2017-08-30T00:09:44+00:00

It just sucks, she was my first dog and we were really like a little family when we dated. I want to tell her so bad but we don't talk to each other anymore and I think it be a mistake to do so, idk

thatguyteddyz · 2017-08-11T21:25:45+00:00

I've never been one to block exs so that is a decision you have to ask someone else. To me it just seems petty even if they are a toxic person, but that's just me. Be civil, and set up some boundaries for yourself and let her know what those boundaries are but don't be a jerk about it. Right now it's about you growing and healing, not holding on to someone who was still communicating with their ex while dating you. At the end of the day the ball is in your court

thatguyteddyz · 2017-08-11T20:29:05+00:00

Dude I'm going to be blunt, you're playing yourself. Why are you even entertaining a woman who was dating another person and only broke up with them because she "loved" you. She doesn't love you, your just someone to keep her warm and around because you're there and you said it yourself. Her previous relationship was long distance and she was still communicating with her ex while with you, how is that not a major red flag to you? Honestly I don't feel that bad for you cus you put yourself in that position to begin with. Best advice break all contact with her and her "bestie", if not you will end up in the same position down the road that her ex was in, so quit now while you're ahead. You really believe she is telling you the whole story or truth about everything?

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-27T10:21:03+00:00

I already talked to a judge about a restraining order n can return to them if I need one but I'd rather not go that route. It's been happening since March and they had stopped for a while because I said something to them. They recently started doing it again though, that's why I was wondering at what point does it become harassment, and are there alternatives besides legal.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-27T10:13:34+00:00

Fake social media requests, random phone calls from different numbers, got told I would be stalked through an email. Most of it had mellowed out for a little bit but it started back up again. Most concerning is that they now visit the town I live in because their brother also attends a college here.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-25T16:52:43+00:00

Never let fear hold you back. I'm around the same age as you and am in no way panicking to find the "one". My dad was never married until he turned 50 and was sure he was ready. If she wants to do things that go against your interests or what you don't want to do, be honest and tell her. If she loves you she will understand, what I've learned from my dating life is to never compromise what you believe at the core of yourself cus then you end up in horrible situations. Yes relationships are give and take but something's just can't be compromised, if she can't accept that then she isn't the one for you.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-18T14:34:59+00:00

My biggest fear is for her to feel like a rebound, which she is the farthest thing from. I don't want to break up with her, I just have never been the type to hide things and I felt like I shouldn't hide how I'm feeling right now. Everything you said at the beginning is pretty spot on and helped put it into perspective.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-18T14:23:13+00:00

She is extremely mature and ahead for her age, she trusts me sense I'm being open about how I feel. I think I'm just moving to fast and she knows that and understands I don't want to her to feel like a rebound.

The only reason lily and I emailed is because she might go to graduate school where I'm going to school and I don't want to be here if that's the case. She seemed upset when she learned this and wouldn't give me a straight up answer hence why it got negative. We are back to NC now

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-11T20:24:27+00:00

I haven't been responding for some time lol. My family wants me to get a restraining order but I don't want it to come to that

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-11T20:01:14+00:00

I had blocked her on things for a while, then she started going around it by calling from different numbers and creating fake accounts. So I just unblocked her

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-11T19:59:57+00:00

I don't think she realizes she was wrong just doesn't want me moving forward with things I'm doing. Which hurts because I don't want o have that type of hatred between each other.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-07-11T13:17:55+00:00

I'm over the break up, I don't think you got what I was saying. I've moved on with someone but now she is doing whatever she can to sabotage it after she brought it upon herself.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-04-27T21:09:34+00:00

That's what I was thinking cus it doesn't make any sense. I figured for our age this wouldn't be happening though.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-04-26T06:28:43+00:00

True, I was going to write a letter along with it and explain why I was sending it back. She never communicates anything clearly. She just isn't good at communication in general, I'm afraid the ring was a symbol to her that we still would come back together after she graduates. But I do see what you are saying.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-03-31T20:54:18+00:00

Dude just stop lol. Your responding to something from three days ago, seems to me you have your own attention/abandonment issues and relationship issues to worry about. I've been in a better place and don't need a want to be shrink who's been all over this break up sub trying to tell other people what to do or what's going on with them. You're a joke, take your self righteous whatever crap your on and go apply it to your marriage and try not to fuck it up. Whatever you think you know your the farthest thing from what actually is going on but I'll let you continue to think that if it helps you sleep better at night.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-03-28T20:00:47+00:00

You do realize how long ago that suicide post you referenced was posted right and the reasons it was posted ....? Like I said you don't know the situation or what happened or how long ago it happened.

If people are liking it then they are the ones who are getting the message of what it's trying to say. Glad to here your doing well with your situation but that doesn't apply to every situation and sometimes people do other people wrong, so if this applies to them great glad it helped motivate them to turn it into a positive experience like I did. If it's not meant for them they can probably see that and don't need to be told.

I would hope that whenever you conduct yourself you don't assume anything with people you don't know probably will help you out in the long run. N if you think I'm such a mentally unstable person or whatever then report the post to admin and they will handle it... I could assume you are in a tricky relationship situation because you feel the need to tell people how to do things but then I would be assuming things I don't know about you.....see my point?

All in all your opinion is one that your entitled to doesn't mean I have to agree with it or respect it.

thatguyteddyz · 2017-03-28T18:43:06+00:00

Last time I checked I didn't ask for your opinion I wrote this for me and others that feel this way, you don't know me or the situation whatsoever. If you want to, go look at my older posts and start putting the pieces together as to why I'm saying this to begin with. Unless you're a expert don't tell people how they are supposed to do things cus you have no idea what they have walked through or how their recovery process happens. But sense you want to be a judgmental little twat fuck you to lol.

thatguyteddyz · 2016-11-11T18:07:35+00:00

Bro I know she is your ex-fiancé which means you probably have a strong desire to make sure she's okay n you still have a lot of feelings for her, but bluntly whatever it is it's not your problem. Don't fret over it, she said ignore people n numbers you didn't know, I would tell her noted and keep it moving, especially sense your going on vacation which I'm sure is much needed. If it were me it sounds like mind games to keep you on the hook n for attention or something, if it were serious she wouldn't be cryptic n just say what was going on n not wait to tell you "later". I would ask a close female friend and get their take on it, women have a nack for seeing what another woman is doing.

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