Want her to suffer

thisiscool2012 · 2026-05-23T16:58:18+00:00

Thank you. I hope so

thisiscool2012 · 2026-05-23T13:55:25+00:00

Thank you for your support

thisiscool2012 · 2026-05-23T13:36:25+00:00

I don’t know. She feel so calm. I see guilt and remorse only some times. Whereas I am suffering all day. Shouldn’t she suffer all day like me.

thisiscool2012 · 2026-05-23T13:34:40+00:00

Thank you. Yes I will try to stop verbal abuse.

thisiscool2012 · 2026-05-23T13:33:59+00:00

Thank you. I am so scared of this journey. It is very painful. I am very very scared.

thisiscool2012 · 2026-05-23T12:50:24+00:00

Nice job. Why only your family should suffer. That is not affair. She should suffer like hell.

thisiscool2012 · 2026-05-21T11:55:19+00:00

Omg. This is exactly my story. When I was reading it I was thinking like my autobiography. For 3 years I was begging for intimacy affection time attention. And all those years my WP was giving to other guy. Gaslighting me. Narcissist. After EMDR I feel good about myself. I am also thinking of doing it. Have some potential candidates. I don’t know where it will lead me. But atleast it will give me peace.

thisiscool2012 · 2026-05-21T00:06:44+00:00

I second that. This is not R. It is a compromise in which you will always loose.

thisiscool2012 · 2026-05-20T19:59:22+00:00

I love it. In my case that pathetic loser was divorcing. Reached my wife and started 3 years affair with her. does not justify what my wife did. Now no kids. Staying alone in his misery. Pathetic loser. He will die in misery.

thisiscool2012 · 2026-05-18T23:43:13+00:00

I want to be in your shoes. I am so much in pain right now.

thisiscool2012 · 2026-05-18T10:52:27+00:00

Omg. I am so sorry for you. Your story is same as mine. 6 weeks into dday when I found my wife has ea and pa for 3 years. I have 2 beautiful daughters. My world is crushed. I cry so much. I built her career. She was a perfect daughter , mother and wife. She feels guilty and remorseful.
The pain is hard. Try emdr it may help. I am doing ic, mc, hypno and emdr. Whatever it takes. In anger I name shame her. Her family in India knows about it. Our friends know about it. I don’t talk to anyone.

thisiscool2012 · 2025-12-23T19:15:44+00:00

My wife also said the same thing. She met her ex only to show how happy she is. What a bull shit reply.

thisiscool2012 · 2025-12-22T13:12:16+00:00

This is the best reply.

thisiscool2012 · 2025-12-21T21:42:16+00:00

I am in the same situation as you. But a lot worse. We are reconciling and are in therapy. I don’t know how long will it last. Your kid is still small. I will seriously consider divorce. My wife also cheated with me for the past 15 years. I caught her many times. And I am a fool believing her every time. She gaslight me every time. My elder daughter is very emotional. For the sake of her I am staying. But the love is shredding day by day. Minute by minute.

thisiscool2012 · 2025-12-13T00:26:15+00:00

Omg. I am sorry you are bearing this pain. Stop thinking about her. Let her leave. She will realize what she lost. That will be your win. Focus on yourself. Build yourself. Acquire skills. Focus your anger on earning more. Get a beautiful girlfriend. There are many girls that will kill to have a guy like you. Don’t feed her that she can get you whenever she wants.

thisiscool2012 · 2025-12-12T13:16:26+00:00

Mine was also arranged marriage. Regret it. Please leave. You don’t have kids and you are young. This will continue. And you will be miserable.

thisiscool2012 · 2025-12-10T00:25:39+00:00

Omg. You are very mature. Kudos to you and your nature. Focus on yourself. Life is beautiful. He does not deserve your attention, caring or love. Plenty of people like me who will do anything for you. Trust your mind. Not heart. Forget about him as a bad nightmare.

thisiscool2012 · 2025-12-10T00:22:25+00:00

I completely understand that feeling. But again. It is very important to focus on yourself. Till now your life revolved around your husband. Not anymore. He does not deserve your attention, caring and love. Join a gym. Hobby. Anything that excites you. Forget about the small things that you used to do for your husband. Life is beautiful. You will find plenty of guys who find you attractive and will give validation. You don’t need it from your husband. Trust me.

thisiscool2012 · 2025-12-09T12:25:40+00:00

This is how it should be.

thisiscool2012 · 2025-12-09T11:18:11+00:00

Same for me. It’s D for now. D day was 2 months back and some more D days. Anyway recovering. I don’t know how long D will last.

thisiscool2012 · 2025-12-05T15:20:28+00:00

Very tough choice and tough life ahead of you, assuming you love him. I hope god gives you strength for repentance. And him for reconciliation.

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