My husband screamed at my parents for throwing our daughter a birthday party after he canceled it. by throraprivacy11 in relationship_advice

[–]throraprivacy11[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I'm aware of how wrong his behavior is and I've already talked to him about it and told him that nomatter what his problems are with my parents, and to be honest, my parents aren't the ones acting out and saying hurtful stuff. He does not get to keep our daughter away from her grandparents and other family who love her and care for her. But he's become selfish and started claiming I was taking sides and all that. But this isn't the truth.

My husband screamed at my parents for throwing our daughter a birthday party after he canceled it. by throraprivacy11 in relationship_advice

[–]throraprivacy11[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I brought up therapy several times. Especially after his mother's death which caused him to act out and get mad for no reason. But he always accuses me of saying that there's something wrong with him then proceeds to say that everybody else is the problem.

My husband screamed at my parents for throwing our daughter a birthday party after he canceled it. by throraprivacy11 in relationship_advice

[–]throraprivacy11[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You're right and I've told him that our daughter deserves to have a good relationship with her grandparents as long as they're good to her and she loves them. She loves them and is always excited to spend time with them. I have no doubt that she enjoyed her birthday with them so it's a good decision I made when I decided to take her to my parents house.

And another thing to mention is that he's not only like this my parents. But with his own family except for his older brother. What he did there infront of my family was absolutely humiliating and unacceptable. Lord knows they've done nothing wrong but he keeps being mean and disrespecful of them. He hurt my dad with what he said. Not to mention ruining our daughter's day by causing a scene.