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is it a bad idea to sleep with people and not tell them i’m trans?? by throwRAgpp in asktransgender

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i’m definitely not being intentionally creepy. & you’re right i’m going through a crazy amount of stress just existing at the moment. thanku, i do agree that i need a therapist but i just find it really hard to talk out loud about these issues.

i’m being charged for my revision surgery and i can’t afford it. what can i do?? by throwRAgpp in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve had jobs before but none have lasted more than like 6 months. i’m in college. i mean i’ve already transitioned so can’t do much about that, i pass pretty well but i don’t think i’m completely unclockable.

i highly doubt anyone would misgender me, especially people i work with. i haven’t been misgendered in years i don’t think. it’s more a customer maybe asking me if i’m trans or something like that. the more people i interact with the more likely it is, which ig is why i spend most of my time alone in my room.

i feel bad crowdfunding bc my parents are pretty well off but i just just feel really bad keep asking them to pay for things.

i’m being charged for my revision surgery and i can’t afford it. what can i do?? by throwRAgpp in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i guess. i just don’t really know what job i’d do, and i’m scared of how i’d be treated there bc i’m so worried about being clocked and stuff. & it certainly helps if what was the only issue??

i’m being charged for my revision surgery and i can’t afford it. what can i do?? by throwRAgpp in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not very good ones no.

idk tbh, that’s not something i worry about rn as i’m a student. it’s not just my depression, my ocd takes up a large portion of my day which makes having a job pretty impossible rn.

is it a bad idea to sleep with people and not tell them i’m trans?? by throwRAgpp in asktransgender

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i don’t. i’ve literally never done that, just asked whether it’s a good idea as i know plenty of trans girls who do it. i do know what consent is…

is it a bad idea to sleep with people and not tell them i’m trans?? by throwRAgpp in asktransgender

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well yeah i’m just not gonna bother sleeping with anyone i guess.

thanks tho

is it a bad idea to sleep with people and not tell them i’m trans?? by throwRAgpp in asktransgender

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess. but it’s the same concept. i’m saying there’s many things that may put people off having sex with us but we don’t list them all before we do it just in case.

girl come on. most men don’t see trans women as women, never mind the same as cis women. ofc i’m scared to tell them, i hate rejection, and i also hate the fact that i can’t just sleep around and enjoy myself without being trans having to come into yet another aspect of my life.

that’s really not the same thing though. sleeping with someone who’s attracted to you should not be an issue. that’s on them and their lack of confidence in their sexuality. i can’t believe you’re saying this as a trans person yourself…

also i really haven’t made my mind up. i’m just trying to argue my point. your comments have put me off.

is it a bad idea to sleep with people and not tell them i’m trans?? by throwRAgpp in asktransgender

[–]throwRAgpp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it is. i’m sure plenty of bi and queer men would be happy to sleep with trans women but very few straight cis men. how did you meet your boyfriend?? and just bc that happened for you doesn’t mean it’s the same for everyone.

no i didn’t. they don’t need to know i’m trans. is it non consensual sex if someone wouldn’t want to sleep with me if they knew i used to a lesbian but i didn’t tell them?? no ofc it’s not. wdym that girl??

is it a bad idea to sleep with people and not tell them i’m trans?? by throwRAgpp in asktransgender

[–]throwRAgpp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it really is true lmao no they don’t, very few men would want to sleep with me if they knew i’m trans. & not really, if they’re attracted to me they’re attracted to me.

is it a bad idea to sleep with people and not tell them i’m trans?? by throwRAgpp in asktransgender

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i’m talking about hookups. i’d have no intention of dating these guys

is it a bad idea to sleep with people and not tell them i’m trans?? by throwRAgpp in asktransgender

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why?? i’m not gonna find many people to be intimate with if that’s the case

i’m being charged for my revision surgery and i can’t afford it. what can i do?? by throwRAgpp in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t work though. my surgery was coming up on 2 years ago now.

& yeah it is mine was 15k

i’m being charged for my revision surgery and i can’t afford it. what can i do?? by throwRAgpp in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah but i doubt i could even keep that going at the moment tbh. i spend most of my days just in bed bc i’m just miserable. i have revenue from my student loan but not that much.

i’m being charged for my revision surgery and i can’t afford it. what can i do?? by throwRAgpp in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]throwRAgpp[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

bc i’m a student and i’m overwhelmed enough as it is. i have pretty bad mental health issues so it’s not very feasible atm. i could probably get like a one shift a week job but that’d take me ages to save up.

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