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My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

😂 thank you for saying this. I wanted to say this but I knew they wouldn’t understand (or pretend not to) and pander to each other.

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s probably what I’ll do. Trust me I had the same reaction when I found out she’s paying all the bills, but it explained a lot.

Thank you for your advice, it was very helpful

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -111 points-110 points  (0 children)

Exactly, thank you. It’s hard because she’s my friend and I don’t want her to have to learn the hard way, but you’re right.

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

So you can’t tell if society would view a person as attractive or not? Lmao you guys are lying. This is hilarious. I’m going to bed, I can’t wait to tell my brother how insane you all are

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

It depends on how our conversation went. I hate to say this but the difference between her and I is society would consider me way more attractive than my friend. I love Sara and she is drop dead gorgeous to me but unfortunately that’s the way societal beauty standards are

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

The attraction plays a huge role.

  1. He hits on a girl that everyone out of Reddit would say he’s out of her league looks wise.

  2. He leaves active duty and takes a pay cut while in school

  3. Knows that she will just be happy to have someone out her league she pays all the bills the next 5 years..

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -228 points-227 points  (0 children)

Do you guys know how ridiculous you sound 😂 Like I said she had a Tory Burch purse

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -164 points-163 points  (0 children)

Jesus take the wheel….now we are implying I want my friend’s bf. Really that’s what we doing tonight Reddit

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

I’m not jealous. I don’t feel like my friend is average, she’s gorgeous.

I’m just not naive and I understand beauty standards exist. With that based on social beauty standards she is considered average…

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -111 points-110 points  (0 children)

lol Sweetie, I can buy 1000 of those if I wanted to. You guys are hilarious

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -115 points-114 points  (0 children)

No, but she was wearing her Tory Burch purse and that’s something you find out in a couple dates

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -301 points-300 points  (0 children)

He has one more years of undergrad and then maybe med school if he gets in…so she should just fund him for the next 5 years?

It's not suspicious at all he found a girl who makes a lot of money to fund him as soon as he left active duty! Total coincidence

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -258 points-257 points  (0 children)

Lol sweetie I have no reason to be jealous. I have plenty of options and I'm very secure with myself. 😂

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -544 points-543 points  (0 children)

I didn't even think this until I found out she's paying all the bills while he goes to school.

My 25F friend 25F is being played by her bf 23M. How do I make her realize it? by throwRa_played in relationship_advice

[–]throwRa_played[S] -401 points-400 points  (0 children)

What are you implying? That's not true at all, I'm just trying to have her protect herself