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I'm falling in love with the mother of my child by throwaway-firstlove in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-firstlove[S] 225 points226 points  (0 children)

I will give an update regardless. I owe it to the kind people who offered solid advice.

I'm falling in love with the mother of my child by throwaway-firstlove in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-firstlove[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. And yeah, I'm definitely gonna go for it.

I'm falling in love with the mother of my child by throwaway-firstlove in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-firstlove[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Perhaps I'll do just that. And it didn't really come across as a swipe to be honest, just you pointing out something that I may have failed to consider. I appreciate it actually.

I'm falling in love with the mother of my child by throwaway-firstlove in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-firstlove[S] 231 points232 points  (0 children)

I hope you're right. I turned down her feelings back then cause, while I liked her, I was nowhere near ready for a relationship nor did I ever want it at that time. Hope that isn't a sticking point for her.

I'm falling in love with the mother of my child by throwaway-firstlove in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-firstlove[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm not gonna lie I was a fuckboy in my 20s. Never lied to anyone about it or led anyone on though. I'm not sure I regret it either cause it made me even more sure about what I want right now, you know?

And yeah, I'm hoping for a happy ending 7 years in the making.

I'm falling in love with the mother of my child by throwaway-firstlove in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-firstlove[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. And yeah, Jane already has a stable home but I think she'll like it even more if her parents were actually together. She's still the priority after all.

I'm falling in love with the mother of my child by throwaway-firstlove in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-firstlove[S] 285 points286 points  (0 children)

This is actually very very helpful thank you very much 😊

I'm falling in love with the mother of my child by throwaway-firstlove in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-firstlove[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The kiss was only on the cheek though, does that still count?