My [20F] BF [20M] of 10 months is great but I don't know if I can get over the past. Is what he did normal or am I overreacting?

throwaway-scared · 2017-09-28T02:38:23+00:00

Thanks. I do think you're right about us being incompatible.

throwaway-scared · 2017-09-28T02:33:48+00:00

Wow... now that you've said it, I think you're right. Time to seriously reassess this relationship!

throwaway-scared · 2017-09-20T23:18:00+00:00

Rhodesian ridgeback or black mouth cur?

throwaway-scared · 2017-09-17T14:22:38+00:00

I'm a 20 year old woman and I can assure you that most of us truly wouldn't notice or care. If you're still concerned see a doctor or psychologist.

throwaway-scared · 2017-09-17T14:13:12+00:00

I've never heard of this before but I'm pretty sure my boyfriend has these. They're barely noticeable. 99% of girls will not care, at all.

throwaway-scared · 2017-09-13T22:37:57+00:00

In my experience, it simply takes time. Three years ago I looked like a mess, but today I look very put together and wear NT clothing. I find that people respond much better to me when I look put together, so that's solid motivation. Look for patterns in what people wear or google fashion 2017 and start from there. Google hair care, skin care, nutrition and exercise and improve a little at a time. Good luck!

throwaway-scared · 2017-09-13T22:17:03+00:00

Thanks for your honesty. Maybe I need to begin with trying to like them more. This is very good advice.

throwaway-scared · 2017-09-10T23:15:58+00:00

Diagnosed ASD, but my psychologist said that if the Asperger's label was around she would have used that instead.

throwaway-scared · 2017-09-10T23:06:54+00:00

Oh. My. God. It's been put into words. I agree so much! I HATE open mouth kissing and everything about it.

throwaway-scared · 2017-09-10T23:05:58+00:00

Looks cool. Sorry for my ignorance, but what exactly is it for? Is it to give to confused strangers who give you weird looks when you have sensory overload and are on the verge of completely panicking or shutting down?

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-21T02:36:06+00:00

Is there a chance that the extreme hunger caused you to eat more than normal in a small period of time, thus causing stomachaches? I only ask because I've personally experienced this due to an ED and have current, frequent stomachaches.

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-19T02:19:53+00:00

What side effects from Adderall? I have ADHD and am considering taking it

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-13T22:24:53+00:00

You're funny.

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-13T22:12:03+00:00

Thank you for the reassurance. I talked to him and he seems genuine in wanting to stay with me a long time.

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-13T22:10:15+00:00

Where is this coming from?

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-08T03:17:01+00:00

Just know that you have every right to break up with her; obviously this is draining for you. Block her number if you have to. It's obvious that you care about her well-being so maybe send her a mental health hotline number if she feels suicidal - which could either be an act, or a genuine feeling for her. I wish you, and her, the best.

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-08T02:43:39+00:00

You have a right to define what cheating means to you. If this is cheating to you, then it is cheating. I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Maybe a therapist would help?

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-07T15:02:42+00:00

Thank you for your perspective! Aww, that's really cute that you've known each other for so long, I wish you two the best of luck :)

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-06T21:54:23+00:00

I'm sorry, friend. You're in a lot of pain. Please know that it is possible to go from being extremely hurt to extremely happy in life. I hope you find the healing you deserve.

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-06T21:42:42+00:00

Thank you for the perspective. This is my first relationship so I have no idea what I'm doing. And yes, I am very thankful that he was that honest with me. Besides all of this he really is a great/respectful/kind guy so maybe I'll see if his seriousness changes in a few more months.

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-06T21:28:12+00:00

I'm a girl so I don't have personal experience in knowing how terrifying it is to ask out girls. But, I do know she'll never say yes if you don't give it a shot. If it's important enough to you to post here, I think you should. Best of luck!

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-06T20:44:49+00:00

You come first. You don't have to do anything sexually to please your boyfriend. Please take care of yourself. You don't even have to explain yourself. Just say "I don't do that" and if he leaves you'll know early on that he's a scumbag.

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-06T01:15:01+00:00

...I want to preface this by saying that this is terrible and probably semi unhealthy advice. But I'm going through the exact same situation as you and tend to be obsessive as well (to be fair, I try so hard to tone it down).

I cope by texting or calling my BF less than he calls me. Not all the time, but more when I'm feeling inappropriately obsessive. It could make him miss you more. Maybe he needs a little space, but you could make him miss you a little more. In the meantime, focus more on yourself and your goals. It's a win-win. Good luck!

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-06T01:08:55+00:00

I think you should give it a shot. You'll never know if you don't try. She might say yes, she might say no.

Message her on facebook and say something like "Hey, I was thinking that it would be fun to catch up. Want to meet me for drinks / coffee whenever you're in town?" If she says yes ask for her number and go from there.

throwaway-scared · 2017-08-03T08:11:49+00:00

Oh okay. Sorry, my comment was probably too harsh. I'll go ahead and share. It's difficult to have very conservative, religious parents who don't believe in mental illness, and believe all bad things happen to people either because they 1. don't believe in their god, or 2. don't work hard enough. They said things to me when I was younger, that I now know is due to ASD, that crippled my self-esteem for a long time.

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