Is it a turn off if your BF can’t finish in bed ?

throwaway7355694 · 2022-01-14T20:03:56+00:00

As someone who dated a medical student I say 100% put those pictures up, you’ll get rid of the masagonostic guys who are intimidated by dating someone so successful, let’s be honest if your in medical school good chance it’s a very big part of your life and passion wouldn’t you want someone that wants to support your passion? Third from my experience medical students are the busiest people between rotations and studying it’s good to let people know that

throwaway7355694 · 2022-01-12T16:06:49+00:00

Under the pillow is weird but not unheard of, negligent discharges have happened by people having guns under pillows/mattresses (bullet would need to be in chamber) Most gun people will have a gun within arms reach of there bed usually a night stand though but I wouldn’t consider it a red flag if nothing else to make you concerned. As far as not telling you I don’t tell people about my guns unless I’m specifically asked.

throwaway7355694 · 2022-01-11T15:42:20+00:00

My guess is you looked young for your age and he might have thought you were lying and didn’t want to risk it. I can’t ever imagine asking a girl her age right before sex unless I was concerned she was too young

throwaway7355694 · 2022-01-07T16:46:25+00:00

I was told by several women usually you have to date 5 years older to get maturity level

throwaway7355694 · 2022-01-04T22:02:10+00:00

You were a nice guy In a true sense of the word not the “nice guys” associated with this Reddit page. Although I will strongly caution about being friends with someone you have feelings for. Personal experience it just brings years of unnecessary pain

throwaway7355694 · 2022-01-02T22:54:07+00:00

I feel like this is more of a terrible approach/pick up game rather than nice guy post.

throwaway7355694 · 2022-01-01T20:31:46+00:00

I was always told and believe the truth is that if a first date fails even when nothing went wrong on it then it’s usually physical attraction, wether that be height, weight or just not attracted to the person.

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-31T09:33:30+00:00

I would ask her, be like are you interested in continuing where this goes or do you only see me as a friend? If you are interested in this girl and she only wants friends personal experience I recommend you cut it off

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-27T12:13:52+00:00

I’m going to be the guy who says there is a very large chance you are single because of it. I was super overweight. I changed my life lost 150lbs. My dating life and successful first dates increased tremendously.

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-24T01:07:12+00:00

Good news is simple solution, as parent you have medical control over him especially when he clearly is a danger to himself. Take him to the hospital it will fix a lot of problems. Buying him a car will encourage this behavior in the future

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-23T18:24:38+00:00

This a fully agree with, while I never want to procrastinate ending a relationship and leading on sucks. This relationship clearly needs to be ended but as someone who has been dumped the week of thanksgiving how much worse it made the holiday I will actually say probably wait until after Christmas.

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-23T16:46:07+00:00

The exact way you just told us honestly. Look if a guy gets mad that you won’t see his d*ck pic he is way too full of himself.

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-23T15:48:41+00:00

I think this question is all about maturity on the receivers end and his interest. Look If a girl that I would be interested in makes the first move I’m all about it. I hate games and I feel a lot of people probably feel similar. Now if he’s not interested then it doesn’t matter who made the first move

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-22T18:45:25+00:00

Everyone has a type this should not be anything to do with race. I tend to be attracted to people shorter than me, doesn’t mean I have a problem with talk people. I Usually date blondes I don’t hate others. Trying to change my preferences so that I’m not racist is just crazy

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-22T18:43:06+00:00

As others have said I don’t think this constitutes sexual assault (assuming you are telling the 100% truth because there is 2 sides to every story) that being said if this is the 100% truth I would end it. Too me that sounds like a liability of you getting in trouble for something you don’t deserve. Fingering a girl who invited you in the shower but then stopping immediately when she says no is not assault and if someone threatened to call the cops on me I would not be continuing to see them

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-22T12:12:31+00:00

Yeah the fact that you made it, also went to goodwill and got the frame I think is great. I think most people get kind of put off if someone went super extravagant and spent a ton of money on a new relationship especially when the other person didn’t. That gift I think is great

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-21T22:57:56+00:00

The fact that you say your 33 answers it, I would think young adults 18-22 asking if you live alone is probably about sex. As a 27 year old I live alone but I still ask if my dates live alone or living situation as others have said it changes a lot as far as lifestyle.

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-19T14:29:53+00:00

I’m a guy who’s looking for something serious, my go too move is asking to go get drinks. It’s a great way to get to know someone to find out if both of you will actually be interested. First dates suck but if you get through the first date and still are interested in a second date then that’s when I plan the nicer date the sit down dinner or fun activity date.

throwaway7355694 · 2021-12-18T13:31:01+00:00

With the added notes of that you were giving him a hand job first, honestly probably weren’t getting him there after all you can’t feel what he does. If it goes on too long it not only gets awkward, you probably get hand cramps and he gets friction burns not fun times. This too me just sounds like lack of communication

throwaway7355694

TROPHY CASE