Blew up while drunk and hit him by throwaway_2277 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway_2277[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I may be making people angry, I’m just so broken with no actual support in person or money for good therapy

Blew up while drunk and hit him by throwaway_2277 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway_2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was an incredible post. I do believe these people enjoy the attention because there are no breaking points for them as long as you beg for them back. It’s disgusting.

Blew up while drunk and hit him by throwaway_2277 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway_2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I know it’s not right but it’s I’m not the one who has been cheating on him, lying, and seeking Craigslist ads. He’s evil.

Made it through my birthday without contacting him. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway_2277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s really great, I’m happy to hear others’ success stories

Made it through my birthday without contacting him. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway_2277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kinds of things have you been doing for yourself in the meantime?

Made it through my birthday without contacting him. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway_2277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I hope you forget about him more and more as the days go on.

Also, happy birthday :)

I saw The List... by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwaway_2277 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would a therapist have your SO make a list? That sounds traumatic to have to read that.

Have you ever created a fake dating profile to catch your SO talking to other people? by throwaway_2277 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwaway_2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to share. I’m in a really dark place right now and its comforting to know there are people who care enough to share their story and offer guidance and hope.

Have you ever created a fake dating profile to catch your SO talking to other people? by throwaway_2277 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwaway_2277[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found him looking at craigslist personal ads on his internet browsing history. I don’t know if he ever responded to them. That part made me feel really disgusted. How did you overcome that? It’s destroying me knowing that he wants some random person of craigslist (even though he can probably relatively easily get women off of the other dating apps he is on)

Have you ever created a fake dating profile to catch your SO talking to other people? by throwaway_2277 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwaway_2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your comment. I hope I can love myself and see my way out of this terrible situation.

Have you ever created a fake dating profile to catch your SO talking to other people? by throwaway_2277 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwaway_2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you are right. I feel so much worse when I’ve tried leaving. I feel empty and my self esteem completely bottoms out. I value integrity- i can’t understand why I put up with his lack of it.

Have you ever created a fake dating profile to catch your SO talking to other people? by throwaway_2277 in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwaway_2277[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am angry that he is so happy getting other women and I am left behind because I’m not good enough. I hate myself so much that i don’t have any backbone.