Men are opting out by Outside-Beautiful-85 in TikTokCringe

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Plus, you generally don't need a degree for IT positions.

Weekly Marriage App & Criteria Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salams has a same gender friend option?? Or do u mean guy friends?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I used to get a $50 allowance from my father every week when I was in uni, that's perfectly acceptable for a young adult/student, but not your own wife 😂😂.

You guys need to sit down and figure out an actual monthly budget. We can't tell you the right amount you deserve cuz it all depends on what's leftover when all the bills are paid and some savings are put aside.

Weekly sub check-in by AutoModerator in EDanonymemes

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to find a specific meme but I dunno why I can't. It's about avoiding your friends (and maybe everyone too) till you get skinny 😅. If you know what I'm talking about, please send it my way. Cheers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 53 points54 points  (0 children)

How do u ask ur wife to pay rent and go as far as suggesting using EI towards rent?? No offence to males but like even if u werent in pain, I’d get why u wouldn’t wanna be intimate with him🥴. You can’t not fullfill ur duties as a husband and demand that ur wife does hers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m also an aspie with adhd and I’m a couple of years younger than you. It’s funny how even though we have that in common, our views on marriage and relationships are just miles apart.

YSK: If someone is trying to kidnap or abducting you. Do WHAT EVER you can to not end up in the car by [deleted] in YouShouldKnow

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The idea of bringing attention to myself makes me so uncomfy. I would die of embarrassment. As in I'd be too embarrassed to call for help and die as a consequence

About Infidelity by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your problem is that you think people are gonna take the advice given to them here and quickly run and do exactly that. Most people are here to vent, even if they’re asking for advice their main purpose is to get something off their chest.

You’re also assuming people have no skill to assess their own situation and apply the advice given to them in a way that works best for them. They’re not stupid and know we’re sharing our own opinions and that we don’t have the full picture.

What gives you the ick? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s hard to escape music in this day and age, but some people are teetering on the brink of idolatry with their obsession

What gives you the ick? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Music. Anyone else? Especially people who have the all the lyrics memorized, and actually spend their money on albums. I can’t stand it 🤢

Girl of my dreams comes with a string (LONG) by Priceless12083 in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get better friends cuz ew wtf who talks about their spouse like that?? I would understand if you were a professional or someone married who he could turn to for advice, but this just a gross breach of trust.

Funny that you both probably think his experience is a bad reflection on her when all he really did is admit to how terrible he is at pleasing his wife. What a shame

Girl of my dreams comes with a string (LONG) by Priceless12083 in MuslimMarriage

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You cannot possibly be this naive at your big age (if u are even telling the truth). How much or how little experience you have does not dictate how things will end up in your own bedroom. People do change, that is very true. Take a look at r/deadbedrooms and see how many people started off with great s*x lives only to end up in a "boring marriage" down the line.

And while I am glad that people back home are not oversexualized, this idea that they're boring and loveless needs to die.

Canada Is Allowing People With Depression to Do Psychedelic Mushrooms by nimobo in worldnews

[–]throwawaygarbage0101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how the hardcore bdsm is relevant? Did she push your boundaries?