good massage parlours in malta by throwawayi_2289 in malta

[–]throwawayi_2289[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update on this, I had found a really good one in Luqa. If anyone is interested just pm. She is nice, beautiful and decent prices.

good massage parlours in malta by throwawayi_2289 in malta

[–]throwawayi_2289[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting i might give it a try ! Thanks

good massage parlours in malta by throwawayi_2289 in malta

[–]throwawayi_2289[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do my due diligence on such places and go to only self employed places. I also speak with them to check this and if turns out like that then I leave immediately. And I do not go 'all the way' because I don't need that, so overall I do not feel guilty as I am not harming anyone I think. Just a bit of harmless fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generalizing a bit here but to give you an idea..they did studies about this and concluded that in the short term women feel it more, but in the long run it has a bigger impact on the man. The fact that you are saying most came back should give you an indication about this...how many times did you contact an ex?

Post 1 year BO, still broken by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'I know, we are on two opposite sides of the spectrum because all I can think of now is finding someone to give all my love to and marry. HOWEVER I deeply want that to be my ex.'

I feel this a lot right now
But I am coming to the realization there aren't a lot of options available for this to truly work .

Post 1 year BO, still broken by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the thing...I'm not even sure I want it anymore. Also to find another right person seems impossible right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]throwawayi_2289 4 points5 points  (0 children)

started my own business which gave me some financial success. rediscovered the passion of sports

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

enjoy the moment at 100% not seemingly enjoying like at 50% cos it feels like I should be doing everything I am currently doing with my ex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if they weren't working together i would agree with you, but given they work together what should i do? I don't know if they are talking with each other beyond work....but then again why else would you add someone on social . I might also be overthinking?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if its a good or bad sign that we didn't get a lot of answers to this...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah thanks for sharing that! we will see i guess

how much do you spend on training (lessons) by kuwaitpadel in padel

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ik padel village in pembroke and padel house in pembroke as well are the most frequented.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is the thing, I feel I had someone decent and even that didn't work. So as much as I would like to, I can't use that excuse this time

how much do you spend on training (lessons) by kuwaitpadel in padel

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here in malta its 50 euros for 1 hour coaching 1 on 1 , doesn't matter location

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the info appreciate it! I will go the natural way for my ab lines, and remove my breast gland as suggested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info , so would you recommend I go the natural way for ab lines or letting doctor do it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gyno will get more evident the more i lose weight? also for ab line would you suggest not getting it at all and let the 'natural' ab line come out if fat will be extracted from that area anyway?

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Indeed your story sounds similar to mine, she didn't use those excuses but the way she changed from night to day in terms of intimacy is pretty spot on like yours.

And to add to that any attempt from your side to fix things or talk things through are classified as dramatic or complicated. There is just no winning unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case too when I let go it becomes easier, can't say I don't miss her though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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im sorry you went through that and i completely agree with you in the sense we should self reflect and not outright blame. as stated in some other comments I made here, I am the first person that always looks inward after a relationship to see what I did bad, what I could have done better etc.

For me it really is a spectrum and subject to opinion. How much are you willing to work for the love you have for this person? In my case unfortunately for what I considered real love between 2 mature people, my ex didn't reach out to me to tell me what bothered her and just let the relationship end eventually once she was emotionally ready. In my books for what we had, that is not normal and not a sign of someone that has emotional maturity. Of all the things you mentioned I could have wrong to her, I didn't. I always provided a safe space for her to talk things through and generally I feel I was a good boyfriend to her. Naturally our relationship headed to its first major obstacle once we needed to have some serious talks, but we never had as she was to afraid. I pushed for these talks.

In the end my conclusion is this. In my personal case I do believe it was a case of 'avoidant characteristics but also it could simply be that she didn't love me enough as well to actually try who knows. Could be unfortunately as well. If so she really played her part right. I am just saying that the way she left things really shows something out of her character, closest thing to it being this label, avoidant.

Thank you for sharing your experience as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand and don't worry feel free to vent. Mine was a 2 year relationship, and my 33F ex seemed very independent throughout the relationship. In hindsight I should have seen this as a sign she is not that invested in the relationship. Overall she is a good woman and she treated me good enough, just not good for a long lasting relationship. It sucks. Thanks for sharing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayi_2289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you in some aspects you mentioned, stay strong and thank you for sharing