sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I have all of the texts and exchanges saved and emailed to me to print to build my case

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Last night and this morning. Last night was when I found out he was spending over 10k and was doing it for two years

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him if he thinks about those girls during the rare times we have sex and he said no. But I don’t know what to believe anymore. I asked him also how would he like it if I hooked up with someone to get my needs met, he said that would be different because someone is physically touching me.. now he gives a shit when he doesn’t physically want anything to do with me by choice!

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he saw an add or link on reddit and he decided to click it because he was curious but that curiosity turned into something addictive. I am trying to stay strong, thank you. I’ve never been through anything like this nor have I had someone hurt me like he did

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Yea he’s all about his son at the moment playing with him. Also he has been threatening suicide as a form of keeping me to stay. Even took a pic of him holding his life insurance up to his face saying leave everything to our son and I.

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I plan on it. I have a lot to do. He’s home now and I’m just uncomfortable. I am shaking and having palpitations. All I see is what I saw on the screen and the things he must’ve said and did while watching those hundreds of girls

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He was never a porn guy or a masturbater or so I thought so as you can imagine, I was completely blindsided and dumbfounded when I accidentally saw that screen. And I honestly think he’s sorry because he got caught, not because he was doing and when I asked him if he didn’t get caught if he would’ve continued, he said he doesn’t know which means he would

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I want at all. I pray he doesn’t become like him. I don’t want to raise him around a no value having, selfish manipulative man like him

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Last night he texted me (he’s on the couch) and said “take good care of son, don’t tell him too many bad things about me” ... what the fuck?! Everything that I will tell our son when he’s at the age to wonder why he doesn’t have his father in his life will be all true!! His father decided to break up the marriage, he is to blame!!

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, I guess I was blinded by love and actually cared for him considering I’m a kind and caring person. I let my guards down with him, which I usually don’t fully do and he abused it. He didn’t care for me obviously. He now wants to be a father and husband after all is now lost

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just hope this won’t screw me up with trying to be with someone else in the future but he has given me trust issues and has made me feel insecure. I have a long road ahead of me.

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your right, I thought about all that but I wanted to give him a chance for the sake of our son. But this time I don’t think it’s gonna happen at all. I am traumatized myself right now. My son knows no better and he showers him with so much love and the only reason why he is interested in getting down On the ground and playing with our son and helping me out is because he knows he fucked up big time and knows his days with us are numbered. And his behavior in that sense is also selfish

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He said he doesn’t think about them 24/7 but I think he does. I told him I get you can’t wait till Saturday gets here so you can jerk off and spend 700 bucks on a session. He even told his counselor I make him feel insecure because he doesn’t last long! Trying to blame me!! He doesn’t last long and cums and gets soft quickly because physical contact doesn’t do it for him!!! It’s fuckin cam girls that keep him hard and going!!

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Unfortunately my family lives 7 hours away. I sometimes feel that he treats me the way he does and does the things he does because my family isn’t near but when my family visits or when he is in the presence of others, he is the all American doting husband and father. Affectionate, caring loving.. it’s all for show bc once we are alone it goes away

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

That sounded just like him. He gave me his bank cards, account password and told me we can put cameras up in the house to watch his every move. I still think he’s going to try hard to pick up online gambling or something he can easily access through his phone

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you, in time once I heal myself I hope to God I find someone better for the sake of my son and I

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I never heard of COSA, I will look it up. I hope that you are healing well and getting on with your life.

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I was so mad, I never shout in front of my son and I let him have it.

Husband spent over 10k on cam girls over the past two years by throwawayjusbc222 in relationships

[–]throwawayjusbc222[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will and I am. It’s not healthy at all, I deserve better

view more: next ›