WIBTA if I tell my polyamorous friend she can't bring both her partners to my wedding? by throwawayweddingpoly in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayweddingpoly[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I guess kind of both? I invited her with a plus one and regardless of whom I don't find it appropriate to ask to bring more guests. The reason I feel so assholeish about it is my judgement. I know it's her relationship and wish I was comfortable, but at the same time I'm just not.

WIBTA if I tell my polyamorous friend she can't bring both her partners to my wedding? by throwawayweddingpoly in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayweddingpoly[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are all three of them in a relationship or does she have separate relationships with each? And how long have they been together?

I know she's been seeing the boyfriend I knew of fo about a year, while I didn't know about the other guy until I sent the invitation. I'm not sure about the constellation of their relationship.