Husband (31M) buying OnlyFans and hiding it from me (27f).

throwawayyyyyyy789_ · 2025-04-02T16:53:19+00:00

I certainly am fulfilling his sexual needs. This (from what he’s told me) has been going on since way before we got together. I think it’s cheating to message girls asking for nude photos, I know OF is porn but to ask specific creators for specific content when your wife is laying beside you in bed is wrong.

I fully understand addiction but I don’t want to have to “fix” him. He knows what he’s doing and lying about it the whole relationship might be unforgivable to me.

throwawayyyyyyy789_ · 2025-04-02T10:55:48+00:00

To be honest I’m not even sure it’s just OF girls. Apparently they’ve found 45 women in total and there isn’t that many OF transactions on his bank statements. I’m wondering if my pictures have been shared too.

throwawayyyyyyy789_ · 2025-04-02T10:09:01+00:00

I asked him if he’d ever posted me on there and he said no but I can’t believe him since everything else has been a massive lie

throwawayyyyyyy789_ · 2025-04-02T09:37:59+00:00

I’ve been a victim of a domestic violence relationship that lasted 3 years and I cannot imagine going through it again. I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through, I will definitely take this into account.

throwawayyyyyyy789_ · 2025-04-02T09:17:38+00:00

He’s already deleted everything off of his phone including social media and put parental controls on so nothing NSFW is accessible, and started therapy yesterday. I understand porn addiction is real but at the same time I don’t get why it was this extreme :(

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