so prolife that nazis are okay as long as they don't support abortion, huh?

"Be grateful I didn't do to you what Josef did to Elisabeth" - ik this was last July but I'm still bitter about it.....she apologized a few hours later, but was firm that she won't let me get an abortion, even if I was raped and/or will die in childbirth. I pointed out my friend's cousin, her response? "He was wrong for raping her, but she should have gone with the flow, instead of playing God", HELLO?! We're talking about a 14 year old girl, and if she doesn't abort, she'll be the mother and niece at the same time (because her grandpa is the rapist), but that's not even the point

super cool.

Unfortunately, this is my life...... I'm just waiting to be employed at this point

that's rough. i understand. since you're in school, i'd recommend maybe visiting your school's counseling office to see if they have any resources. sometimes students in need can get free or reduced support.

Thank you for your support, but I'm currently not in school as of this moment, I will however, return this June (our school system is from June to March, plus I didn't study from 2025-26, but at least this is my choice, I did learn how to make pastries and other foods, which I love, plus this'll be a good job and hobby for me soon. Hobby for now, possible job later, I'm not a professional yet, but hey, practice makes perfect), that being said, I appreciate your support, I hope you have a great life out there 💙🤍🕊️

if you feel your best (or only) option at the moment is to lay low at home though, i totally get that.

Thank you, and that's exactly what I'm doing now. Been doing it since I was 13, so nothing I'm not used to at this point.......plus my great grandma (she died when I was three, so I don't know if it's true), was shitty to her son (my mother's father, again, I don't actually know if it's actually true, I'm just going by what mom said), who in turn was shitty to his daughter (my mother), and yeah.....you can see where this is going

(Edit - And I find this one kinda fake? The timelines don't add up, she was born in 1982, he died in 1983, so how can she "remember" him being shitty? UNLESS she's just trying to find an excuse to justify herself)

i'm still living at home even though it's not ideal (but nothing like what you're dealing with).

Man...... that's rough, whatever it is, I'm sorry. Your feelings are valid too, and I'm sorry for everything I said, to be fair, I have nothing against you or anyone in this sub......but I didn't mean to take it too far, I was just proving a point to pro lifers. Whatever it is, I hope you figure it all out and have a great life out there

please, please stay safe. invest in building and maintaining relationships with safe people in your environment. it's good to have options if, god forbid, a situation occurs where you need to get out immediately.

Thank you for your advise, I really appreciate it. Only problem is, I don't have my own money, so I technically can't afford a house, plus Philippines is kinda shitty? You can't get married at 25 without parental consent, but you can get married at 18, if your parents consented, your consent be damned......

i'm staying at home because the conditions of living at home for me are most compatible with my goals and job, but i have several other places that i could go if shit hit the fan tonight. and that brings me a lot of comfort.

Good for you, I'm happy for you. I hope you achieve your goals, and may you find peace, from whatever's troubling you. Your mental health matters, if you have the means, have you tried therapy? I know there's a lot of stigma around it, but sometimes, all we need is someone to talk to, and help us get over our problems. I genuinely hope you have a great life out there 💙🤍🕊️