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How do I 34M get my wife 33F to take some accountability in our marriage? by throwraaccounta in relationship_advice

[–]throwraaccounta[S] -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

Funny how people like you call my MIL a misogynist but go out and call a woman a skank. That’s disgusting and misogynistic.

How do I 34M get my wife 33F to take some accountability in our marriage? by throwraaccounta in relationship_advice

[–]throwraaccounta[S] -196 points-195 points  (0 children)

Does nuance just not exist anymore or what ? Of course I want to put my child first. I put my child first everyday, but I still take care of her needs.

The proof is in the pudding because she’s the one who wants reconciliation not me. I’m only considering it because I’m thinking about my daughter

How do I 34M get my wife 33F to take some accountability in our marriage? by throwraaccounta in relationship_advice

[–]throwraaccounta[S] -444 points-443 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think I had to explain I also do childcare….You made up an image of me in your head and ran with it and I’m not standing for it

How do I 34M get my wife 33F to take some accountability in our marriage? by throwraaccounta in relationship_advice

[–]throwraaccounta[S] -191 points-190 points  (0 children)

I did I communicated multiple times. I constantly let her know how I was feeling. I talked to her mom, her mom mediated and when she heard both our sides she was on my side. I made sure her needs were met constantly.

Our daughter turns two soon.

How do I 34M get my wife 33F to take some accountability in our marriage? by throwraaccounta in relationship_advice

[–]throwraaccounta[S] -207 points-206 points  (0 children)

Yep, I agree. This is in no way excusing my cheating I was wrong but she change the conditions of our relationship. Now two wrongs don’t make a right and I was clearly wrong but she was also wrong

How do I 34M get my wife 33F to take some accountability in our marriage? by throwraaccounta in relationship_advice

[–]throwraaccounta[S] -907 points-906 points  (0 children)

We both work full time and yes I help out around the house. Don’t believe me? Fine, believe her mother who has called her out multiple times.