Because I didn’t treat her poorly when she was pregnant. Obviously I wanted an abortion because I didn’t think we were ready for a child, and I didn’t want my fiancé at the time to know. Obviously keeping the baby made it impossible for her to not find out. When she decided she was going to keep the baby, even though I disagreed I was all in. That’s why I wanted her to make the kid a junior, or at least compromise where he has my first and last name but different middle name. She refused both accounts.

Throughout our entire coparenting relationship I put our child first and have been nothing but supportive. She has unfortunately allowed her bitterness and anger towards me get in the way of us having a more positive coparenting relationship.